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Sara’s tackling a question every girl has wondered at some point—How will I know I’m ready for sex? The truth is that Sara can’t answer this question for you. You’ll only find the answer—cheese alert—within yourself. But Sara can offer you a to do list you should check off before you take the plunge into having sex for the first time. It’s a helpful guide to finding your personal answer to this super important question.
Have you already had sex? How did you know you were ready for sex? Are you still waiting? How do you think you’ll know when the time is right? Get the conversation going in the comments!
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im 16 nd me nd my bf are also having the sex talk were both virgins im just scared weve done other stuff nd that was great!
i think im ready but im scared it will hurt any advice
Hay, so I have a question, im 15 and I’ve been experimenting with my body for 1 or 2 years now and I no what feels good and what doesn’t, I always fantasies about guys in my dreams, and always feeling like im ready to have sex but I am scared of what guys would think about my body because I have always had insecurities with my weight, am I ready???? Please help
I decided to have sex with my boyfriend because I can’t reach orgasm by masturbating and was becoming really frustrated and desperate to experience this fantastic feeling that you hear so much about.It was a huge mistake!
Boys of my age are experts at getting you pregnant, but are totallly useless at giving girls sexual pleasure. They only last a minute or two before their own pleasure overwhelms them, after which they are no longer “up to the task!” I’m not even sure that the male genital organ is even capable of giving a female sufficient stimulation to induce orgasm.My advice is to seperate sexual desire from love for a boy. Learn to pleasure yourself, and leave it to boys to satisfy you in the emotional department.
Did she seriously say that condoms are the only things that can protect you from STD’s??? what what was she thinking when she made this vid? it just reduses the risk of the physical consquences, it does not completley make you protected from having a child or STDs.
You misunderstood the video. Condoms ARE the only contraceptive device that can protect a woman from STDs as well as pregnancy. Of course they don’t have a 100% success rate, but that wasn’t the point. The point was that you can’t protect yourself from STDs with spermicides, the pill, or any other contraceptive method.
i had sex for the first time this year and 2 pregnancy test .. i didnt want to have sex i was just making out with my bf and he wanted to i said no like 5 times and he just kept begging and i gave in …. dnt ever fall under pressure it sux i thought i was gunna spend the rest of my life with him our parents even thought we were getting married and we would have 2 if he didnt move away and there wasnt so much fighting ….. i wish i never would have had sex with him he my best friend and all but its not the best feeling when u know u have had sex with tht person because u were pressured into it
I don’t know what to do. The more i masturbate, the more i become aroused
I’m 16 and my boyfriend and I have only been going out for a month but we’re already having the sex conversation.. We’ve been best friends for a while and know each other inside and out (figuratively), and we’re both virgins so we both are nervous.
I want to, and he wants to, and we know that it’s going to be awkward at times but I have complete trust in him and he feels the same about me.
It may seem stupid because it’s only been a month, but we both love and care about each other like family, best friends, and partners and I have complete confidence that when the time comes, it’ll probably be a pretty good time…
Word of advice:
DON’T FRIENDZONE A GUY BECAUSE HE LIKES YOU, BECAUSE YOU MIGHT END UP FALLING IN LOVE WITH HIM… like I did.
Im 16 too, and i friendzoned my boyfriend for about 6months lol we’ve been going out for almost 2 months now,and we’ve had the sex conversation too. This is totally your choice but maybe you should wait a little longer, believe me when i say there are other things you can do before you go all the way lol I trust and love my bf with all my heart, but we both want to wait, he wants to go a little faster than me, but still we dont want any regrets and to be totally comfortable with each other… Of course, its entirely your choice, this is just my personal experience lol
i’m 14 and how am i forsure now that i am ready for sex because my boyfriends wants to do it but i just don’t know what to tell him?
YOU are ready because YOUR BOYFRIEND wants to do it ??
say you’re 14 and you have sex, are you a whore then?
A whore, by definition, is a woman who engages is promiscuous sexual intercourse for money. So, unless you received money in exchange for sex, no. You are not a whore.
I’m 17. Yes, I’ve had sex. No, I don’t regret it. It’s just… I wish I had waited until I was married. I was 15. I had had a rough day, and my boyfriend showed up to comfort me. My MOm had called him, knowing he’d fix me, at least momentarily. He came in and I kissed him… and it carried on from there.
I’m not ready for sexy yet.
I have a question, on discharge…
How come i have so much, even when I’m not close to my period? is it normal?
I have another question, on orgasms…
would you do a video on how you know when you have one or something? i don’t understand it like AT ALL.That’s one of the only things i don’t understand about when you’re having sex. Please Explain!?
Cant answer the first one, but I find that YouTube is actually usefull for answering the second one.
Video’s not showing?