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Is it a big deal if you don’t want to kiss or make out with your boyfriend as much as he wants to make out with you? Well, maybe. Sara explains that this is a question of sex drive. There are some situations where you can compromise with your guy and find the right speed for cruise controlling your sex drives, but sometimes, different sex drives mean you need to pump the brakes. To find out what kind of relationship you’re in, give this a watch.
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Forget about them I know exactly how you feel boys hate it when girl don’t have confidence so just show /blossom and make their jaws drop
Hi um this isnt got to do with the video,but all my friends are going out with somebody and im the only one not..and to be quite honest i havent gone out with anyone before im only 13 ..i feel like a loser next to them because their all the time talking about their boyfriends and hooking up? Will i ever get a boyfriend because i feel like im not good enough to have one?
Aww, I’m sure you’ll find someone hun! And see the positives in being single! so many girls think that having a boyfriend magically solves all their self esteem issues and that’s not what boyfriends are for! the fact that you think that you’re not good enough may be exactly the reason why fate hasn’t thrown a man your way. You shouldn’t go into a relationship with self esteem issues because:
1. a lot of boys get annoyed when the girl they are dating fails to see the beauty in themselves that seems to be so obvious to them. (in other word putting yourself down isn’t sexy. Although ,you are only human and you’re entitled to a few down days)
2. it makes it easy for some boys to manipulate you if they think you’re weak!
Most BFs want to love their girlfriends but you need to make it easy for them by loving yourself first.
I don’t want to seem like I’m judging. I’m 16 and I’ve never had a proper boyfriend either. However, I know I have really bad confidence issues and I know that me being alone is probably the best thing right now. Girls really need to learn how to protect their hearts and rushing into a relationship when you know you’re vulnerable (however tempting it seems) CAN (not always, but often) be a recipe for heartache
oh and I forgot to mention that it’s 100% normal to feel how you’re feeling. But my point is, don’t dwell on it because you are good enough babe and you’re probably more amazing than you think! And if you do get a boyfriend at this stage, don’t expect all your insecurities to just vanish
kinda true LOL