Comments on: How To Deal With A Broken Heart

By: Teyana

Teyana — Sun, 31 Mar 2013 14:01:45 +0000

Me and my best friend are having an argruement about me liking who I want to like. He says that what I’m feeling is a simple crush but, it STARTED as a simple crush but the more I looked at him I realized that it turned out to be something so much more…I was in love with him.So now me and him currently aren’t friends…I don’t know what to do..I love him but I want to keep him as a friend as well please help…..

By: Ta'lyiah

Ta'lyiah — Sat, 12 Jan 2013 00:12:25 +0000

I’ve been with my ex-boyfriend since 2009. We’ve been through hell and back. Literally. I’ve stayed by his side through it all. Through all the cheating, disrespecting, and the lies. I still wanted to be with him. The huge problem with our relationship we we’re long distance. But that still couldn’t or wouldn’t stop us. But things became sticky once he got in trouble with the law and we couldn’t see each other. He became real distant and I broke up with him because when you’re in a relationship you should never distant yourself from your girlfriend. I was thinking that if I broke up with him about him being distant he’d miss me and want to change for the better but nope, joke on me. He took that break up and ran with it. So now he’s in a new relationship and we just broke up 3 months ago. I still haven’t seen him since our break up and it’s killing me because I can’t stop thinking of him because I’ve became so used to him over the 3 years we were together. I’m really hurt. Like I cry to god every night begging him asking him why would he do something like this to me. Why do I have to suffer? And all my friends tell me to get over him and so on but it’s not that easy. I gave this boy everything I had. I thought he was my soulmate. I couldn’t even imagine myself with anyone besides him. So all of this is bittersweet. I have never been so heartbroken in my life. And despite him moving on and all he doesn’t even call me to even say hi. I mean if he really loved me why would he do this to me. I don’t even know where to begin to move on. I just wish things would have been different between us. I hate to see him with someone else. This shit killing me. I mean I never saw this coming so it’s just so hard but right now I need to know how to face the fact that he doesn’t want me anymore and move on. But I can’t stop thinking of him, thinking of our memories and staring at all the pictures we took. It’s just so hard to erase the only person that meant something to me away.

By: Mmabatho

Mmabatho — Sun, 21 Oct 2012 13:46:42 +0000

I don’t think you really need that man,he is selfish and stupid.My comment to you is to leave the man because one of the bad days he will bring diseases to you,you die young and you will not see your child when he is growing up.My advice sweetie leave the busted alone.

By: amAnda

amAnda — Sun, 24 Jun 2012 15:14:55 +0000

My fiance is cheating on me I have a 6 months old son and he made the girlfriend pregnent.

By: Lara

Lara — Wed, 23 May 2012 23:00:36 +0000

I have had at least my share of heartbreaks, possibly an extra helping or so. My number one way to deal is self-improvement. This serves several purposes; it keeps my mind occupied, it helps me self-indulge because I’m thinking about me, and it gets me feeling positive about myself and my future.

Here are two links from my blog that illustrate this idea:
some easy heartbreak tips -
http://www.theloveinhereyes.com/2011/11/02/getting-over-heartbreak/
self-improvement and looking forward to moving on -
http://www.theloveinhereyes.com/2012/01/24/how-to-attract-the-guys-you-want/