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What do dudes really think about virginity? Is it a big deal if you still have it? Is it if you don’t? And will guys really be honest about their V-card situation? The fearless Kate and Mari set off to find the answers to these questions and more. Virgins and non-virgins interested in virgin stuff, this one’s for you!
Have you ever told a guy you were a virgin? What would you think if you were dating someone who was a virgin? Tell us in the comments!
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After all the stigma people put on having a really high number, being with a virgin is even more terrifying to most guys. It’s #1 reason I have trouble dating. In the minds of most guys I know, no sex=no relationship.
Woa! Well,if a girl is a virgin,and am dating her,i will be so gratefull and hope i will be the one to disvirgine her when we get MARRIED!!!
totally agree!
WTH!?!?!?!?!??!? Kids don’t need strangers to explain this, they have MOTHERS.
Most kids would not feel comfortable discussing this issue with their mother. Their mother, or father, would also probably offer a fairly bias viewpoint or opinion, instead of simply being open and discussing it and listening to their child. I would also expect a good percentage of parents may become more strict or limit their child’s freedom a bit more, if that child is asking them about sex, fearing that their son or daughter is having, or is planning on having sex and then trying to limit that. If someone is looking to hear stories or other people’s experiences they could look in a lot worse places! Also, a mother would not really be able to give a young male’s perspective on this issue. While, in an ideal world, parents and their children should be able to discuss these issues openly, honestly and safely, this is unrealistic in many families. Promoting a healthy view of their sexuality, knowledge of pregnancy, STDs and other sexual issues towards young people, is a good thing. They should be able to have access to this information, in a way that won’t be embarrassing to them, or their parents.
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