This week, Lena has a question in from a girl who asks, “How can I tell if he really loves me or if he’s just using me for sex?” Lena offers some tough love on this one, suggesting you shouldn’t be having sex until you’re 100 percent confident and ready for it–that means not wondering if he’s using you! She also offers ways to bring up a conversation about this topic and helpful suggestions of outside the bedroom activities you both can prioritize above sex. Lena will help you make sure you have a healthy relationship both emotionally and sexually.
Have you ever wondered if a guy was using you? Tell us all about it in the comments!