So, this week, Lena got a message from a girl who asked if it was okay for girls to masturbate. Lena’s response? Hells yeah, it’s okay! In fact, masturbation is awesome. Some people are confused and think it’s wrong or that masturbation is a sin, but it’s not. It’s safest kind of sex (you’re not going to get pregnant or get any STDs!) and a healthy way to explore your sexuality on your own terms. Lena goes on to bust some popular masturbation misconceptions and give you all the info, confidence, and reassurance you need before getting down with yourself.

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  • anonymous

    What are the DIFFERENT METHODS a Girl / a boy can masturbate and what are the techniques and how Safe are these methods??

  • Honey

    I am a Christian and everytime I masturbate I cry because I think it’s not right to do it but it feels so good and I get tempted all the time with this I need help

    • Rather not say

      Same here I’m Christian it feels good but I feel so gulty after

    • Rather not say

      Same here I’m Christian it feels good but I feel so gulty after

  • hhhh

    ok

  • Rachel Herrera

    Masturbating is wrong for those who follow Christ, because most of the time you have to think lust fully about a man to reach orgasm and to fully masturbate. I just think about pleasuring my own body to masturbate, that way it isn’t a sin.

  • Kevin

    There are two parts to this. Some women don’t know (lack of experience or other reoasns) that they need to achieve a balance between relaxation and tension to truly achieve an orgasm. You just can’t lie there and just relax. The tension is very important for arousal. By tension I mean a good amount of buttock, leg and abdominal tension. This tension really is what leads women to an orgasm. The other part is the man. The man needs to be fully with the women both in mind and in body. They key issue here is that that most men don’t have the stamina to keep penetrating for 10-20min to get the women to climax. Most stats (correct me) I have seen state that 25% of women only achieve orgasm during intercourse and another 25% through other means. What is most interesting is that 50% of women will climax if they receive penetration for ten minutes another two third if the guy keeps going for more than 15min.

  • Julieta

    Some 45 per cent of all those females in the samlpe who had ever masturbated reported that they usually reached orgasm in three minutes or less, and another 25 per cent in something between four and five minutes.The median for the whole group was a few seconds under four minutes.Many of those who took longer to reach orgasm did so deliberately in order to prolong the pleasure of the activity and not because they were incapable of responding more quickly. (p163 Sexual behavior in the human female’ by Alfred Kinsey published 1953)

  • Heather

    A Fun way to masturbate is to put ice on,not up your vagina,your vagina.It feels good.You should try it.:)

  • crystal

    so masturbating well not my thing but i guess ill try comment if you think i should try to masturbate

  • Brittany

    ok.. i have almost put my finger all the way up there but am super nervous because I dont know if u lose your virginity if u masterbate. i only want an answer if your a virgin and you know for sure

    • Marisa

      You can only lose your virginity by having sex- thats the ONLY way. It used to be thought that your hymen (a flap of skin that partially covers the vagina) was a mark of virginity, and it broke only when having sex, which is why some girls bleed their first time. But actually, some girls are born without them, and they can also break by being in an accident, doing the splits, riding a bike, using tampons, etc. Virginity cant be proven, even if you went to the gyno, they couldnt tell if you had lost it if your hymen is gone. If you even partially finger yourself, its probably broken, but your still a virgin :) Hope this helped! I’m a virgin too, btw, and fingering cant change that ;)

    • No one in particular

      well, virginity is the actual act of intercourse, once you’ve had intercourse, you will not be a virgin anymore.

  • Chelsea

    This hasnt got alot to do with the video, but how do you toss and suck someone off?

  • baby

    this is probably a really weird question but how do you actually do it?

    • Madisonalex

      Just have fun with it. Try touching different parts like ur clit or anus. Try different speeds or in circles, humping things, filling a condom with play dough, spraying water in ur vagina (while doing this hump, change temp, rub nips, etc.) use a mirrior and see it. Get dirty thoughts and just BE dirty. Hump a ball or ur washer machine, rub ur tits, do stuff wih ur friends….if ur not lesbian its fine, just play with each other and talk to each other! :) type in “how to masturbait” on google/wiki/bing and see how and watch porn then delete history! Enjoy :)

    • Lola Thomas

      All you have to do is find your G spot and use your finger a Dido

  • Cindy

    In health class my teacher has been talking about teen pregnancy, STDs, some sex, and baby stuff. One time she practically said that masturbation was wrong, but didn’t tell it shtraight. But through the past classes I had the idea that if school would promote masturbation instead of lecturing kids about not having sex and using methods that know they will forget about it, then teen pregancy could be lower, because then they would been do it along and with no risk of catching any bad luck in any way.

  • molly

    is it wrong to masturbation if you a christian

    • Cindy

      you know what gurl? there is soooo much stuff that christians would not do (or should not do) if they would have the bible as the only straight way to live. I’m christian but I masturbate because I don’t want to be in a moment when I’m feeling like it* and then just because I can’t take myself, do it with a guy a catch something I don’t want to. plus as she said is something nature, sex is natural and being a teen is about that, defining yourself and sexuality, and I can bet that even christian men (and women) do it,too! hope to help :)

    • shay

      okay, so ive wondered the same thing too. i dont think it is wrong, but what i think is wrong is if you like watch porn or think dirty thoughts while doing it.

    • Justine

      I was wondering the same thing!

  • kissoflove

    :) I love this. Video ……….it’s. Awesome :)

  • lane

    is gurl going its own magazine