What do you do when your BFF’s boyfriend sucks in a major way? Well, you have to tell her she’s got a bad boyfriend. But, it can be touchy. So, Sara’s here to help with how to tell when you need to say something and how exactly to do it.

Do you know someone with a bad boyfriend? Or do you have a question for Sara? Tell us in the comments!

Should You Take Him Back?!

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How can you tell if a guy really likes you? Like, really like likes you? Are there any secret clues? Well, actually, there are. Sara has a few sneaky ways you can tell if a dudes into you. Super helpful and super stealth!

Do your friends constantly ask, “Is he into me?” Do you ever wonder if your own crushes like you? Tell us in the comments!

Can Long Distance Relationships Ever Work?

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Have you ever been in a long distance relationship? What would you do to make a long distance relationship last? Tell us in the comments!

Need To Choose Between Two Guys? Here’s How!

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Have you ever had to make this choice? What did you do? Tell us in the comments!
 

Terrible At Flirting? Here’s Help!

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Sara Hoots is back on Gurl! Whoot whoot! We’re so pumped that she’s back for another season of Sexy Times with Gurl. And this season, she’s decided to get personal. She’s taking you guys into her home to answer all of your relationship questions.

Post your questions in the comments below and Sara just might be featuring you in her next video. New season starts next Friday at 5pm EST/2pm PST.

No Idea How To Flirt With Him? Here’s Help!

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Ah, sexy times. Theoretically, it’s simple stuff: In, Out, Rub, Lick, Ooh, Aah, Done! But girl, there are a ton of things you can use to turn your bedroom break into something truly amazing. One of those things is lube!

Lube is liquid that is used to make your vagina more “wet” so that any in-and-out goes more . . . smoothly! Sounds good, right? Well, it is–but there are a few things you should know before you decide to try out your very own Sexy Slip N’ Slide. Here are the facts about lube:

* You can buy lube that’s made out of all kinds of things–petroleum, silicone, etc–but water-based lube is always the best. It’s less likely to irritate your delicate lady-bits and is totally safe to use with condoms.

* Petroleum-based lubes are a major no-no, since they can actually make the condom you’re using break. Unwanted pregnancy, anyone? Yeah. No. Didn’t think so.

* Lubes that contain glycerin (which is a sugar) can give you a yeast infection. Ick. Avoid them–even if they say they come in tasty flavors!

* Applying lube to your sexy parts can be a fun part of foreplay! Be creative–and always be safe.

* You can use lube on your guy (over the condom) and even on sex toys!

* Never use cooking oils, Vaseline, or any other random kitchen stuff as lube. You could damage your condom or end up with a nasty vaginal infection. So not worth it!

Have you ever used lube? Do you have any tips or advice for girls wanting to try it out? Tell us in the comments!

Try Not To Be Too Loud, Girl!

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Today we’ve got a question in from a girl who’s wondering if she’s normal. She says, “Whenever I mention my crush, my sister teases me and says I’m boy crazy. Am I? Is that bad?” Sara’s got a two part answer here and lots of advice. First, big sisters can be total a-holes. Second, girls have crushes. It’s a scientific fact. It totally doesn’t make anyone weird. But, there are some ways to make sure your crush is normal. Watch the vid to see if your crush is normal or if you’re off the boy crazy charts!

And get ready for a sad face. This is Sara’s last Sexy Times with Gurl video. Tragic, we know! BUT, the good news is that this won’t be the last you’ll see of Sara on Gurl. We heart her big time and we’ll make sure she comes back every once in a while!

Have you ever been accused of being boy crazy? Do you think any of your friends have gone a little nuts when it comes to guys? Tell us in the comments!

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Is it a big deal if you don’t want to kiss or make out with your boyfriend as much as he wants to make out with you? Well, maybe. Sara explains that this is a question of sex drive. There are some situations where you can compromise with your guy and find the right speed for cruise controlling your sex drives, but sometimes, different sex drives mean you need to pump the brakes. To find out what kind of relationship you’re in, give this a watch.

Now, Here’s What To Say When You’ve Gotta Talk About Sex

Sara is kind of our new BFF--you'll love her, too!

No, Sara isn’t a Victoria’s Secret Angel or a hip-hop video vixen–what makes her sexy is that she knows how to have fun and be herself.

Here are three reasons we love Sara Hoots (and why we think you’ll love her, too):

 
 
* She still has her favorite stuffed dinosaur from when she was little. Loyalty!

* She loves a good cheeseburger. She’s REAL!

* She’s been on Gossip Girl. Seriously! AND she doesn’t brag about it. (So we will for her!)

Beyond all of that, this self-proclaimed nerd payed her way through college and saw the world–including visiting some U.S. troops in Iraq and Afghanistan–as a waitress at Hooters. We get it that a lot of girls aren’t into what that restaurant chain represents, but we dig that she knew a good opportunity when she saw it and used it to get ahead in the world. Sexy AND smart? Love that!

Sara’s Sexy Times With Gurl videos will debut every Friday at 5pm Eastern Time (2pm Pacific) right here on Gurl.com–starting tomorrow! So get ready to have all your deepest, darkest, sexiest secrets answered!

What sexy times topics do you want Sara Hoots to talk about at Gurl.com? Tell us in the comments!

Need To Talk To Him About Sex? Here’s How!

This week, Lena has a question in from a girl who asks, “How can I tell if he really loves me or if he’s just using me for sex?” Lena offers some tough love on this one, suggesting you shouldn’t be having sex until you’re 100 percent confident and ready for it–that means not wondering if he’s using you! She also offers ways to bring up a conversation about this topic and helpful suggestions of outside the bedroom activities you both can prioritize above sex. Lena will help you make sure you have a healthy relationship both emotionally and sexually.

Have you ever wondered if a guy was using you? Tell us all about it in the comments!

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