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A 4Chan Twitter hoax called #cutting4Bieber encouraged pics of girls cutting after Justin Bieber was caught smoking weed. | Source: WENN

Girls cutting is never funny, nor is cool, healthy or trendy. Girls cutting for Justin Bieber? Even worse. But that became a trending topic on Twitter this week after he was caught smoking weed . . . but it wasn’t real.

Troll group 4Chan devised a somewhat elaborate Twitter hoax, compiling disturbing images of girls cutting their wrists and posting with the hashtag “#cutting4Bieber.” WTF?! People mistook the hoax as a legit group of Beliebers taking to their inner arms to send Justin Bieber a message–even Miley Cyrus spoke out on the dangers of girls cutting and how this isn’t a matter to be taken lightly.

I’m not saying any topic is off limits jokewise–that’s dumb, and humor is subjective. But actively encouraging anyone else to self-harm, especially a group that can be as impressionable and group-minded as Beliebers can, is both irresponsible, sick, and sort of just . . . evil.

The 4Chan hoax began on the troll group’s message boards, where some sick puppy wrote, ”Tweet a bunch of pics of people cutting themselves and claim we did it because Bieber was smoking weed. See if we can get some little girls to cut themselves.”

See the difference there? They’re actively doing something with the intent for to get girls cutting themselves. That’s their entire purpose for this. It’s much different from making a joke about something, you dig?

A lot of 4Chan users hopped onto the perverse bandwagon, comparing it to their “#bald4Bieber” campaign back in October 2012–that was another Twitter hoax that they hoped would encourage girls to shave their heads in solidarity with Justin Bieber, who they said had cancer (none of that was true, obviously). There’s a big difference between girls shaving their heads–which, if done under false pretenses, is pretty traumatizing in itself but not immediately dangerous–and girls cutting, which could be potentially deadly.

The threads were all taken down shortly after they were posted because–hello?! It’s insane, it’s sadistic, and it’s dangerous. But some damage may have been done: Pictures on Twitter, tumblr, and Facebook showed girls cutting. It’s not clear if those pictures were of legit Beliebers who bought into the #cutting4Bieber campaign or if they were images used by 4Chan in the hoax, but whatever the case: It’s not cool at all. Cutting is serious, and seriously urging anyone else to do so suggests that you have really serious issues, possibly worse ones than actual cutters do (and those are bad).

If you cut yourself, or if you know any girls cutting themselves for any reason, you can get help here. And if you know any girls cutting for Justin Bieber to stop smoking weed or trying to get anyone else to do so, be sure that they get a lot of help.

Do you think 4Chan went too far by trying to start girls cutting for Justin Bieber? Do you think 4Chan meant legitimate harm by encouraging girls cutting for Justin Bieber, or do you think it was a prank that got out of hand? Tell us in the comments!

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Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber used to spend a ton of time together before they split. A lot of times when you’re single or fresh from a breakup, you have a lot of time on your hands that you may not know what to do with.

Thankfully, Selena’s stopped sulking at Hooter’s (girl, the wings aren’t worth the sexism–we’d sulk too!) and had a better idea: Hanging out with her girls. Sel’s been leaning on her BFF Ashley Tisdale now that she’s flying solo in the dating scene, and you know what? We bet she’s having a lot more fun. Here are our favorite reasons why a girls’ night can totally be more fun than a date–even if there’s no makeout sesh at the end!

1. Speaking of making out: You don’t have to deal with a bad kisser!
Bad breath? Attacking your tonsils? Awkwardly bumping noses or teeth? Smearing your lip gloss on his face? Getting too handsy? You don’t need to worry about any of that nonsense when it’s you and your pals.

2. You can dress for you.
You may be nervous to try red lipstick because some guys say that they don’t dig it, or feel like showing more frills than cleavage. You might want to wear heels without towering over a short dude. With your girlfriends, that stuff doesn’t matter. Heck, they’ll help you primp and take pics of how hot you are–and they won’t give you dirty looks if a guy checks you out!

3. You don’t have to be self-conscious.
When you’re on a date, you may be freaked out by how much you like a guy or just so focused on impressing him that you don’t act like your total awesome self. With your girls, you won’t feel pressured to laugh at a crappy joke (probably because they know how to really make you laugh!) or hold back when you want to talk about something serious or dramatic. You can also dance! That’s what they’re there for.

4. You can do girly things without a grumpy guy checking his watch.
Most guys don’t like trips to the mall, One Direction concerts, or watching chick flicks or ballet, and they might give you crap for it when you want to do those things. Your girls will, at worst, argue over who gets to pick the music in the car on the way there.

5. They’ll be there long after you forget this guy’s name anyway.
Love is awesome, but it comes in a lot of forms. The crush you have today may completely change tomorrow, but the love you have for your girlfriends and vice versa is a lasting bond that can weather almost anything. Take care of them, and let them take care of you!

Do you have girls’ night regularly with your friends? Do you rely more on your pals after a breakup? What’s your favorite girls’ night memory? Tell us in the comments!

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Selena Gomez should know better than to mope in public after a breakup–even if it’s with Justin Bieber! | Source: WENN

Coping with a breakup is hard for anyone to deal with–especially celebs who have to deal with press asking questions and plastering pics of them and their exes all over the place. (Think Facebook drama multiplied by a million!)

Case in point: Selena Gomez was spotted sulking in a Hooter’s restaurant after her breakup with Justin Bieber. That’s gotta be rough in itself, let alone once you hear that people are going and telling everyone they saw you like that.

After a breakup, you’re angry, you’re sad, you’re lonely, and you feel like no one really gets it. Even if you did the dumping, you’re still probably pretty bummed out–at least a little bit.

While there’s no set formula to moving on from a breakup, there are a lot of things we totally know not to do if you really want to move past this rough time and get on on with your awesome life.

Here are our tips to you and Selena Gomez to move on from that dude who clearly wasn’t good enough for and didn’t deserve you. You can do better, but you won’t until you let yourself!

1. Don’t eat (or drink, or smoke) everything in sight!
Sure, those cookies and Ben and Jerry’s and hot wings (we’re lookin’ at you, Sel!) may seem appetizing now, and they might even make you feel a little bit better for a while. You may think drinking or smoking or doing some other substance may numb the pain. But here’s the thing: When the high–sugar or otherwise–is over, you’re going to feel even worse. Because not only are you dealing with a breakup, now you’re probably also sick to your stomach or worse.

If you want to treat yourself, by all means–you’re human, you’re awesome, and you deserve it. But if you’re using your treats as anesthesia for your emotions, it’s a problem. You’re pretty much putting a Band-Aid on a broken bone (or in this case, a broken heart). It may make it a little less ugly for a little while, but the problem is still there, and it’s not going to get better unless you actually deal with it instead of numbing yourself to it.

2. Don’t mope in public!
Selena Gomez, you should know better–you have a P.R. team! Even when you’re sad, you don’t need to show it in line at Starbucks or the halls at school. You know what’s gonna happen if you do? People are going to ask what’s wrong, and you’re not going to feel like explaining it all to them, right? Plus, you want to convey an air of confidence in light of the drama. You may actually care, but you don’t need the world to know (other than your diary and BFF!). If you’re really bummed, stay home–or at least slap on a smile if people are looking. You never know when a cute guy will be nearby looking for a pretty smile like yours!

3. Don’t force yourself to move on too soon after a breakup.
Rushing into a rebound relationship when you’re not over a breakup is a recipe for disaster–and will likely just lead to another messy breakup in the end. Give yourself some time to process why you and your ex didn’t work out. Keep a journal if you need to, and try to learn something from the split before you hop into a car with a cute guy just because he’s there.

4. Don’t badmouth your ex–or keep calling him!
It may feel good to tell everyone what a douchebag your ex is, but it’s only going to make you look hurt, bitter, and meanspirited. If anyone tries to bait you into talking smack, just say, “Justin is a great guy, but it just didn’t work out. Hey, did you see the Jets game this weekend? Now that was sad.”

And if you’re tempted to stay in contact with your ex after a breakup? Don’t. Even if you plan on being friends, which is great, forcing it too soon is only going to get messy. It’s a lot easier to move forward if you stop looking back. In a few months when you’re both in a better place, feel free to be buds. But by then, you probably will release that you don’t need him anyway! Remember: If he was so great, you’d still be together. And you’re not … so he’s not!

5. Don’t get jaded!
It’s tempting to look at “Forever Alone” comics and be convinced that you’ll never find anyone like your ex after a breakup. But here’s the thing: You won’t find anyone like your ex, and that’s a good thing–because if he’s your ex, he wasn’t right for you. Selena Gomez may never find another Justin Bieber, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t a ton of cool guys out there who wouldn’t treat her like a queen. And if you get jaded and bitter, you won’t find anyone period. Give yourself a week for every month you were together to dwell, mope, and listen to sad songs. When the last day is up, hide all reminders of him and move it along!

Have you ever had a hard time after a breakup? How do you deal with breakups? What’s your best way to move on after a breakup? Do you have any advice for Selena Gomez after her split with Justin Bieber? Tell us in the comments!

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RIP Jelena: After Justin Bieber hung out with her ex, Nick Jonas, Selena Gomez broke it off for good! | Source: WENN

Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez have had a rocky relationship for a while. They broke up about a month ago, and Justin was hanging out with Victoria’s Secret models–not good. He had to work extra hard to win her back, and it looks like he blew it again. Another guy came between Selena and Justin: Nick Jonas. But not in the way you might expect.

It wasn’t Selena Gomez hanging out with the Jonas Brother. Rather, Justin hung out with Selena’s ex, Nick, in the recording studio and apparently beat the snot out of him in a ping pong match. The guys then tweeted about it (ouch!). This all set Selena off. “Justin and Nick Jonas hung out all night,” a source told Hollywood Life. “Selena was crying about it. He wouldn’t even return her calls when she found out and called him up. Hanging out with Nick proved that he wants to just be a jerk about this, and Selena’s sick of being heartbroken. They are finished, and I think it’s for good this time.”

Now, this is kind of a toughie. You can’t control who your boyfriend is friends with, but we can totally understand why Selena wouldn’t necessarily want Justin bonding with her ex–that’s uncomfortable and awkward: What if they’re talking about her? It’s just a weird situation all around.

How should you deal with your guy being friends with your ex? That depends on a few things.

First, were they friends before you started dating? Then you have less leeway, because it’s something you knew going in. You can try to set boundaries: “Hey, can you just not bring my name up? Or hang out when I’m around?” and if he’s worth your time, he’ll understand.

If they became pals after you got together, that’s a little weird, but not necessarily bad: If you and your ex are both genuinely over one another, you can just try to keep a safe yet civil distance. If you think there’s going to be drama, though, you may want to lay down the law with your dude. In addition to the guidelines listed before, you may also want to ask him why he’s suddenly BFFs with your old boyfriend just to get a better understanding of the situation: Do they both love ping pong? Are they each the only other guy they know who’s really into Deadpool? It may be innocent enough. Also consider this: Do you live in a small town? It may be a situation of proximity and a lack of other bromance options. Though Justin Bieber and Nick Jonas are pretty popular, in Hollywood, it’s a pretty small circle, and everyone is bound to run into one another at some point.

Obviously, having your boyfriend playing video games with your ex is a little awkward and may be off-putting. But if you’re secure in your relationship (and in yourself) and truly past your former flame, it doesn’t need to be as dramatic as the dilemma Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber got into with Nick Jonas. We think the issues Selena and Justin had before just made what may have not been a huge deal otherwise into a bad situation … and maybe inspired that dance!

Do you think Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber are broken up for good? Do you think Justin Bieber hung out with Nick Jonas just to make Selena Gomez upset, or that it was a more innocent meeting than she thinks? How would you feel if your boyfriend or girlfriend suddenly started hanging out with your ex? Tell us in the comments!

Taylor Swift doesn’t want Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber to ever, ever get back together!

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Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber are on and off, but Taylor Swift thinks they should be off for good. That may explain all that side eye. | Source: WENN

As Sel’s best friend, T-Swizzle is reportedly bummed about the couple reuniting. A mutual pal of the superstar BFFs revealed that Taylor hates seeing Selena so unhappy because of Justin’s wandering eye issues and the toll of the publicity they get as a couple: “She [Taylor] just feels Selena is getting weighed down by the Justin drama.”

It turns out, Sel’s own mama agrees with Swifty–and we all know, mama knows best. The pal added, ”Selena’s mom, Mandy, doesn’t want Selena held back by Justin,” the friend added. “She says he’s too much trouble.”

Sometimes we need to listen to our girlfriends, especially in the case of an off-and-on romance. If someone is a true friend, she wants to see you happy, and if you’re constantly crying or worrying about what a guy is doing, guess what? He’s not making you happy. It’s better to be single than strung along and miserable, and your friends can help you see through to what the real reasons are that you’re staying: Are you addicted to the drama? Do you fear being alone? Do you think you can’t do better? (Girl, you can. Whoever he is, you can.)

When you really like a dude, it’s easy to get blinded by that and not quite understand that he’s actually making you pretty miserable–it’s a tangled web of breaking up, making up, making promises, breaking promises, and bruising of egos. A lot of times your friends will see it before you do: Your behavior may change, and you may complain about him more than you realize. But your friends will probably pick up on it, because they’re seeing everything pretty objectively through an outside lens (and because they might be a little tired of hearing your kvetch about the same jerk all the time).

Moral of the story? If you’re unsure about a guy, ask a friend. She won’t steer you wrong!

As for the particular case of Jelena, Taylor Swift has said that cheating is a dealbreaker for her, and she’s smart for it. Considering the Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez breakup was rumored to be due to Sel’s trust issues and Biebs’ wandering eye, we don’t blame Taylor for encouraging the pair to never, ever, ever get back together. Like, ever.

Have you ever needed a friend to give you a reality check with relationship drama? Would you take Taylor Swift’s dating advice? Do you think Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber should stay together or break up? Tell us in the comments!

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Just because people are at the same family party, doesn’t mean they belong to the same political party. Talking politics with loved ones can can sometimes get highly emotional and lead to an awkward aftermath. You might want to take a cue from Taylor Swift (who refused to talk about who she was voting for in the presidential election) and save the politics talk for a different time.

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Family often wants the best for us, but can also be harsh critics (even if they don't mean to be). Whether someone makes a judgy comment about your new haircut or your choice of classes, try to keep model Kate Upton in mind. Despite some people criticizing her weight, she's instead focused the conversation on things like being healthy, having confidence and being psyched about fashion. Family critiques sting, but try to remember it's really about making sure you're happy with you.

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Just look at that smile--how could anybody not be happy around her?!

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When Minnie Mouse is your bestie, I bet you can get into Disneyland for free!

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How much fun would it be to go out to karaoke with the leader of Selena Gomez & The Scene?! SO MUCH. That's how much.

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Selena worked to rock the vote and does all kinds of other advocacy work, too. We heart her big time for that!

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Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez broke up, but it sounds like he’s in denial of the split. Will Jelena reunite? | Source: WENN

The Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez breakupshocked the world, but now sources close to the pair are saying it may have been a long time coming–but that Justin doesn’t really believe (see what we did there?) that it’s the end.

Here’s what we know so far: Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez broke up for sure, but they may not have split for good. Apparently Jelena have split up before and gotten back together quickly and quietly, and Justin thinks that this breakup is going to be like the rest–just a minor smudge on an otherwise gorgeous love story. Here’s why Justin and some of the couple’s pals think they can work it out: Apparently nothing happened and nothing is going on with Victoria’s Secret model Barbara Palvin, who Justin was linked to right when the Jelena breakup rumors hit. If Justin Bieber really wanted to, he could get just about any girl he wants (provided Harry Styles doesn’t nab them first), so it sounds like he’s really devoted to Selena Gomez, right?

Or that he’s really delusional. It could go either way. He actually didn’t know what to say when he was asked about the breakup:

What’s more, Selena is reported to have trust issues with Justin, so seeing him photographed hanging out with a Victoria’s Secret model probably didn’t feel that great. Their hectic schedules make it hard enough to hang out, but when most girls on the planet (again, that haven’t been stolen by Harry Styles) are dying for a piece of your boyfriend, it can’t be easy. Remember that whole baby mama drama? Who can deal with that? Add that to all the Beliebers who want to marry Justin Bieber, and we can see why Selena may not have felt secure. It’s both an issue with herself and with Justin. Trust is super important in any relationship, but especially in ones that are long distance and with one of the biggest stars on the planet.

While we’d be happy to see Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez back together, we’re not so sure it’s going to happen this time.

Do you think Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez broke up for good? Why do you think Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber broke up? Were you surprised by the Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez breakup? Do you think we’ll see Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez back together? Tell us in the comments!

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