Boobs are like a never-ending science project and we mark their progress over the years in a mental notebook while wearing a smile or a frown. I know that I’ve had my fair share of boob angst (let’s just say mine aren’t small, at all, whatsoever…okay they’re pretty damn large), and it can be a real pain buying clothes that fit them. But in the long run it doesn’t really matter if we love them or hate them because chances are they’re going to stay with us for the long haul whether we like it or not. We just gotta deal…unless you have the money for a boob job but that’s not the point.

Lately we’ve talked about the woes of having big boobs and found out what attracts people to boobs in the first place. As usual, you all had a lot to say.  Here are ten of your responses.

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What do you think about breast size? Do your breasts give you any problems or make you feel self-conscious?  Tell us in the comments!

10 Things I Wish I Knew Before Buying My First Bikini

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Most people are a little nervous the first time they get naked with someone else, but are you actually afraid to be naked? There’s actually a legitimate phobia for that. (A phobia is different from a regular fear in that an all-out phobia is usually irrational and interferes with your daily life and functioning.) If you’re afraid of being naked–not just uncomfortable being naked in front of someone else–you may have gymnophobia.

Experts say phobias, including gymnophobia, often develop after a bad experience–for example, you might get arachnophobia after being bitten by a spider. Similarly, if you have a bad experience with nudity, like getting made fun of in the locker room at school, it can make you afraid to be naked in general.

What’s more, people who are afraid to be naked usually suffer from other anxiety and/or body image issues–which makes a lot of sense, right? Specifically, people who suffer from anxiety or obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) may have issues stripping down because of the obsessive thoughts that come along with it.

One doc explained it thusly: “[It’s] more a general anxiety of their own body image as a comparative basis. We are an increasingly obese nation so the comparison could be stressful, anxiety producing, negative for one’s self-concept and could affect one’s own willingness to expose one’s self in privacy in a relationship.”

Translation? People with gymnophobia who are afraid to be naked are constantly worried about measuring up to everyone else, whether those people are real or media images of perfection.

If you think you’re legit afraid to be naked to the point of having gymnophobia? Don’t panic! There are ways to correct it. Experts recommend that you take small steps–starting with walking around and getting comfortable in just your skivvies, then moving forward from there.

Have you ever been afraid to be naked? If you’re afraid to be naked, do you think it’s all out gymnophobia or just being uncomfortable with your body image? Tell us in the comments!

Afraid to be naked? Here’s why should love being naked!

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But I do love my boobs because well, they’re great! I’ve never been fitted for a bra before, but we went to an event at Intimacy last night to peruse some of their new selections. They were offering free fittings, and I figured why not?

By taking just one look at me, my fitting stylist said I was wearing the wrong size and chuckled a little at how tight I had to make my band and straps just to stay on. Instead of using a measuring tape, the stylists at Intimacy use a holistic method where they determine everything by touch. You’d think it would be awkward with someone poking your boobs, but it wasn’t at all.

My stylist looked at my rib cage and shoulders and felt where my boobs were sitting in the bra I was wearing. After literally 1 minute, she said “Yup, you’re definitely in the wrong bra! I’ll be back.”

She came back with a ton of gorgeous bras. Like the prettiest bras I’ve ever seen! She carefully put me into each one and the difference was absolutely shocking. I mean, I have never felt so comfortable in a bra before. And my boobs have never looked so great! I immediately felt a relief in my back and shoulders, and I was standing up super straight.

I was amazed. When I asked what the size was, my jaw dropped. I went down two band sizes and up two cup sizes. I wanted to buy every single bra she put on me!

I didn’t make a purchase last night because the bras were super fancy and way above my budget, but now I know what size I should be looking for. When I put my bra on this morning I actually groaned because it was so uncomfortable compared the bras I tried on last night.

I seriously want all of you to go get professionally fitted like immediately. Don’t do it for me. Do it for your boobs.
 
Have you ever been fitted for a bra before? Were you wearing the wrong size? Tell us in the comments!
 

Why do guys like big boobs so much? Science!

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No matter if you’re part of the teeny weenie titty committee or you’re plus size and worried about how you’ll look in a two piece, we’ve got a few tips that will help make your bikini shopping a breeze. Forget what the magazines say. We have your ultimate guide to bikinis right here.

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Make Sure You're Comfortable Enough To Wear A Bikini

Bikinis show a lot of skin, so if you aren't prepared to show off your assets, you might end up feeling incredibly self conscious. You want your day by the pool to be fun, not miserable.

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Buy A Well Made Bikini

It's easy to go for a cheap and trendy suit, but you're throwing money away if it isn't constructed well. Splurge a little if you have to to make sure that you don't buy a bikini that falls apart after its second wear.

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Try It On

The bikini of your dreams might fit like a nightmare. You want to feel comfortable, not tortured. Don't just eyeball a bikini, look at the size and assume it will fit. It might be a pain in the butt but make sure you try on your bikini before you buy it.

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Make Sure The Material Is Thick Enough

You might find bikinis without padding to be too revealing. If you don't want everyone to know about the state of your nipples, make sure that the lining is thick enough and that the material isn't see through.

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Big Boobs Beware

Unfortunately, if you have large breasts you might be a little stuck as to what to look for in an ideal bikini top. This is especially true if your most readily available options are string and triangle tops. Try to stay away from bikinis that are only sized small to large and make an effort to find a bikini top in your bra size. It's a little more work but it'll be worth it. Support is too important to take for granted.

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You Won't Look Great In Every Bikini...And That's Okay

Just because you don't look great wearing a halter top bikini doesn't mean you should give up on bikinis forever. Find out what shapes, sizes and styles you think are most flattering for your figure.

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Double Knot Everything

Getting hit by a big wave sucks. Losing your bikini top after getting hit by a big wave is even worse. Double knot everything, top and bottom.

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Buy Your Tops And Bottoms Separately

The top might fit, but the bottoms might make you feel like you're in the "Thong Song" music video. Some people need a larger bikini top and smaller bottoms or vice versa. Buying your pieces separately will assure the most comfortable fit and help you make sure you aren't fined for indecent exposure.

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No Bikini Is Worth Starving Yourself Over

Every summer magazines love to tell you how to get the perfect bikini body. You don't need to run 3 miles a day, do 200 crunches and eat nothing but carrot sticks for weeks on end to look good in a bikini. Do you want to know the real secret to getting a bikini ready body? Wear a bikini. That's it. That's all you have to do.

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You Don't HAVE To Wear A Bikini

At the end of the day your bathing suit is all about your taste and your comfort zone, nobody else's. Don't feel obligated to wear a bikini. Tankinis and one-pieces are really great alternatives and come in just as many different styles.

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Do you have any bikini tips to share? Do you like bikinis or prefer other swim suits? Tell us in the comments!

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Tattoos are a big decision. I mean, they’re permanent. You have to be absolutely sure you want this on your body forever. We were both 100% sure so we did it.

But I do resent the term tramp stamp because I think it’s really unfair to say that one part of the body is inherently trampier than other parts. I also have a tattoo on my foot. That doesn’t mean I have a floozie foot, right? And I have a tattoo on my wrist, but I don’t have a slutty wrist. It’s just stupid. Where you decide to get a tattoo is not a direct reflection of your sexual choices.

That said, there are some things I hate about my “tramp stamp” so click through and see what they are!

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That People Think I'm A Tramp

First of all, my sex life is my business, not anyone else's. Getting a lower back tattoo did not turn me into some kind of sex-crazed maniac. And it doesn't mean that I got a tattoo to reflect sexual behaviors.

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That People Think It's A Target

Having a lower back tattoo does not mean I'm easy or that I'm "asking for it." NO ONE is asking for it.

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That People Think I'm Dangerous

Tattoos do not make a person dangerous or angry or violent. I'm really nice, and having a tattoo does not change that one bit.

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That People Think I'm Angsty

I did not get a lower back tattoo in order to lash out or prove a point. I didn't do it to rebel against anything.

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That I Feel I Have To Hide It

Because there's such a stigma against lower back tattoos, I sometimes feel like I have to hide it. Obviously, I'm not walking into work with low-cut jeans and a crop top. But just in daily life, I'm always aware that people are going to see it and judge me for it.

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That I Forget It's There

I love my tattoo, but because it's not in an easily visible place for me, I'm constantly forgetting it's there!

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That People Say I'll Regret It

Many people tell me I'm going to regret it one day. But I've had it for 9 years now, and I've never regretted it for a second.

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What do you think about tattoos? Do you think they reflect your sexual choices? Do you have any? Tell us in the comments!
 

Some people are getting nipple tattoos

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I generally can’t wear heels around guys unless they’re really tall. Finding pants that are long enough is a nightmare. My knees are constantly hitting things. Some days I just wish I were a few inches shorter.

Here are 10 of the worst things about being tall:

You always have to stand in the back of group pictures.

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It’s almost impossible to find shorts, skirts or dresses that cover your butt.

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People always say this.

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Your friends ask you to wear flats out.

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This is how you feel when you hug anyone shorter than you.

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And this is what it’s like standing next to anyone shorter than you.

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Your friends can’t reach anything so they always ask, “Will you grab that?”

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Your knees hurt when it’s cold or raining.

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Airplane and car seats are just way too cramped.

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You’re frequently called a giraffe.

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Here are 10 things that suck about having big boobs

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I’m pretty sure Kelly Clarkson wasn’t singing about eyeshadow shades in “Behind These Hazel Eyes,” but that’s okay because I can cover the makeup thing. This week, we’re continuing our trip down the eye color spectrum and rounding up the best makeup products for hazel eyes.

Click through to learn more about my favorite products for hazel eyes!

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Almay Intense i-Color for Hazel Eyes

Since hazel eyes are a combination of green and brown, you can go opposite both sides of those colors and lean toward blues and coppers. This Almay set has an orange-copper, a navy and a shimmery highlighter.

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Almay Intense i-Color Liner for Hazel Eyes

Hazel eyes can also use teals and greens like this liner. If you're looking for something more subtle, I'd suggest going with a deep brown instead of black.

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e.l.f. Brightening Eyeshadow in Butternut

Hazel eyes can stand a good bit of metallic, too. This neutral metallic eyeshadow quad is perfect for an everyday look!

Buy it here for $1.49!

Revlon Just Bitten Balm Stain in Darling

Just like my green-eyed girls, hazel eyes look great with purple. This lip stain looks super daring, but it's not too crazy! It adds just the right amount of purple undertones to make your hazel eyes stand out.

Buy it here for $8.09!

Revlon Photoready Cream Blush in Pinched

Since hazel eyes have a lot of color in them, I like to recommend a more natural blush. Don't go overboard with pink or purples. Instead, stick with a neutral color with a bronzy finish.

Buy it here for $11.69!

CoverGirl Exact Eyelights Mascara in Black Gold

This CoverGirl mascara is perfect for hazel eyes because it has flecks of gold in it, which will really brighten your eyes and bring out the gold spots in your iris.

Buy it here for $7.64!

L'Oreal Infallible Eyeshadow in Eternal Sunshine

Hazel girls should always have a good gold on hand! Use this under your lower lashline to really make your eyes pop!

Buy it here for $7.95!

 
Do you have brown eyes? Are there certain colors you use? What are your favorites? Tell us in the comments!
 

Check out our favorite products for our brown-eyed girls

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Confidence and loving yourself in your own skin helps you let go, relax and enjoy yourself in bed, but you can’t do that if you’re too focused on covering your “imperfections”–and chances are those very imperfections are things guys either love about you or don’t even notice! And here’s what’s weird–about a third of us admit our bodies are actually pretty slammin’, but we just have too low self esteem to flaunt it comfortably.

Here’s why you need to learn to love yourself and love being naked. Because, well, if you’re not, you’re probably having bad sex. It’s hard to have good sex when you’re too busy focusing on whatever angle hides the cellulite that everyone has but only you can see!

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Because Pants Suck

Seriously, admit it: When you're home alone, unless you have lots of windows, you probably walk around naked and love the way it feels. Guess what? It still feels good even if someone else is around. You just have to move past your self esteem and focus on the breeze.

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Because Taking Off Your Bra Feels Amazing

Look, I get it. Bras make your boobs look good. But you know what makes your boobs look good to dudes? The fact that they exist. They're just happy to see them, even if they aren't quite as full or perky as your undergarments may make them seem. Plus, how uncomfortable does this girl look? Free the girls!

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Because He Really Loves You Naked

Whether or not you like yourself naked, guess what? If a guy is in bed with you, he likes you naked. In fact, he probably loves you naked. Don't make him question his undeniably wonderful taste!

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Because He's Probably Self-Conscious Too

You already know how much he loves to see you naked. (If you don't, scroll back one image and get a refresher, hot stuff.) But if you're too critical of yourself, he's going to think you're critical of him too--and that won't be a good situation for either of you. You both look great, now own it and enjoy it!

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Because You'll Communicate Better

If you're not happy being naked in front of your guy in bed, chances are you're not going to be happy telling him what you want and need to make it a good experience, either. That can lead to resentment if only one of you is getting what they need in bed. Remember: Good communication + confidence = better sex. Remind yourself of how hot you are (and you are, trust us), then go get what you want!

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Because You'll Be More Comfortable

It's cool to be a contortionist if that's your thing, especially in bed. But if you're twisting yourself into a pretzel to look thinner instead of to do something that feels good, you're not going to be happy or satisfied. See how cramped and pensive this girl looks? You should look a lot happier and more blissful than that in bed.

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Because When All Else Fails, There Are Blankets And Light Switches

Sex is more about feeling than seeing, so if you're nervous about seeing yourself naked, don't let it kill your bedroom mojo. Confidence and self-esteem won't come magically overnight, which is why we're glad sheets and electricity. If you're self-conscious naked, you can always hit the lights and cozy up under some sheets until you're ready to flaunt your ultimately flawless bod. (How do we know it's flawless? Because it's yours.)

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Have your body image issues led to bad sex? Do you think you’d have better sex if you didn’t have low self esteem? How do you boost your confidence before sex? Tell us in the comments!

When do we feel the sexiest?!

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Even though I love my green eyes, I was always jealous of girls with brown eyes because they had a whole song just for them. Whenever “Brown Eyed Girl” comes on, I can’t help feeling a little envious! Brown-eyed beauties are lovely, but there are a few things you can do to make your eyes look even richer!

Click through to learn more about my favorite products for brown eyes!

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Almay Intense i-Color for Brown Eyes

Almay has a trio just for brown eyes too featuring a lavender, deep purple and highlighting vanilla. Any shadow in the purple or blue family is great for brown eyes!

Buy it here for $7.49!

L'Oreal Eye Shadow in Glistening Sea

Teal is also a fantastic color to enhance brown eyes, especially for anyone who's wary of wearing blue shadow.

Buy it here for $4.79!

Physician's Formula Eyeliner Trio for Brown Eyes

This eyeliner trio contains a purple, copper and dark brown so you can go bold or subtle depending on your mood.

Buy it here for $11.99!

Boots Botanics Eyeliner in Blue

If you really want to make your eyes pop, go for a royal blue eyeliner. Blue is opposite brown on the color spectrum and will instantly enhance it.

Buy it here for $5.99!

e.l.f. Studio Blush in Candid Coral

I recommend corals with bronze undertones for brown-eyed girls. You could also go with warm pinks, but coral is a happy medium.

Buy it here for $3.00!

Revlon Super Lustrous Lipstick in Caramel Glace

Flesh-tone lipsticks with a bronze shimmer also have a really nice effect in making brown eyes look more rich.

Buy it here for $7.19!

Maybelline Great Lash Mascara in Royal Blue

And once again, colored mascaras are always a favorite of mine. Using a royal blue mascara, even just on the ends of your lashes, will make your eyes really stand out.

Buy it here for $4.67!

 
Do you have brown eyes? Are there certain colors you use? What are your favorites? Tell us in the comments!
 

Check out our favorite products for you girls with baby blues!

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When I got to college, I sported a few hot pink low lights during a breast cancer awareness promotion at a local hair salon. I loved them! But the bleaching required to get the pink strands to show up in my dark hair was super damaging, which I wasn’t a fan of.

Even though I would love to chop my hair off like J-Law, I just can’t bring myself to do it. So I resort to dying my hair in order to keep myself from getting bored. I go ombre every couple of months, and I’m thinking about going red in the near future. Obviously, I’ll show you if i do!

One thing I really adore though is using temporary dyes and hair chalk to get fun colors that aren’t permanent! I can also be really indecisive so temporary hair colors are perfect for me. If you’ve been wanting to go blue or green or purple to rebel a little, you can! This is also a great way to see if you’d like the color before making it a permanent thing and freaking out your mom.

 
Mix pink and blue to stand out in brunette hair

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Try these hairstyles for prom or any other occasion!

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