I'm 16 and I've NEVER had a boyfriend. I've never even done "stuff" with guys or anything. The last guy I kissed was in sixth grade and it was only a peck. I keep stressing (bad) about this and I don't know how to deal because everyone I know is dating. I've been told that I'm boyfriend capable, but I just can't seem to find anyone. Please help me deal with this!
Calm down
I didn't get a boyfriend OR my first kiss until I was 17. It may look like everyone around you is dating and making out but first off they're not, secondly why care about what everyone else is doing? Just keep looking and if you like a guy, ask him out! --Posted by kleokriesel 10:00PM EST 09/21/05
Don't Rush!
So what--you are very young. You have plenty of time to have a boyfiend. I'm 15 years old and my first boyfriend was very slick and almost got me to lose my virginity. You not having a boyfriend right now means there is no drama in your life. But it is worth the wait. Just hang in there, your time is coming very soon. --Posted by foxychick357 04:37PM EST 09/21/05
RELAX
When I turned 16, I didn't have a first boyfriend or a first kiss. It freaked me out. I gave into peer pressure and entered into a relationship I really didn't want or need. I was almost raped. Now, I wish I would have never given in to the hype about boyfriends. --Posted by ilovehero 02:56PM EST 09/21/05
I don't get it
I still don't understand what the big problem is. Most of the time, guys are more trouble than they're worth. I didn't get my first real kiss until I was 17--and it was worth it to wait. Don't do it just to do it and don't feel like you have to just because all of your friends are. So what! You aren't them and they aren't you. Everything happens for different people at different times. Don't let it stress you out. --Posted by slowly_fading 11:07PM EST 09/20/05
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