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i have no privacy

i can't stand my step-mom

everyone thinks my sister's better than me

my family is really poor

my dad doesn't like my friends

my mom thinks i'm insane

my christian cousin is gay...

i hate seeing my mom kiss her boyfriend...

my sister is anorexic...

my sister and i like the same guys

my parents fight about money

my mom focuses on mistakes i've made in the past

my mom's been snooping...

how do i tell my mom i want to be a vegan?

I lied about dating a younger boy, my mom would think I'm a loser

my dad insults me

my parents don't believe in dating

i'm an atheist but my mom's a lutheran

i have to share a room with an eight year old

my mom read my diary

i'm not allowed to date!

i cannot get along with my mom...

my mom and i are always yelling at each other.

my parents are paranoid about me dating.

my mom is a big emotional mess.

i just found out my dad is really my step-dad.

i want to be on birth control. how do i ask my mom?

my mom won't let any of my friends drive me places.

i want to find my real dad.

my dad and grandma are always fighting.

i can hear my mom having sex with her boyfriend at night.

i have my license but my mom won't let me drive on my own.

my parents are getting divorced and i'm freaking out.

my mom hates my best friend.

my dad looks at porn online, then blames my sister and me.

my mom doesn't like my boyfriend because he is not christian.

should i tell my mom that i'm not a virgin?

my parents don't support my vegetarianism. what can i do?

my mom doesn't believe that i'm bi. how can i convince her that this isn't a phase?

i think my dad is cheating on my mom. should i say something?

my brother is mad because i'm hooking up with his best friend.

my mom tries to fit in with my friends and it's really annoying.

i found a video of my brother smoking pot and i'm worried about him.

my mom won't let me wear make up.

my family keeps pressuring me to find a boyfriend. how can i get them to back off?


My parents have been divorced for over ten years now so I go to my dad's house every other weekend. Lately, though, when I get home from my dad's, everything in my room is out of place. I even had a fashion magazine in a pile of stuff behind my bed and I found it on the coffee table in the family room. A lot of stuff like this has happened to make it obvious that my mom has been snooping. It's really annoying because she can't respect my privacy! How can I make her stop?

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    Don't sweat it
    Girl don't sweat it. Parents are going to be like that. Any way, just don't put anything special in there for a wile. If she goes snooping through your stuff again ask her without an atitude, say, "Mom please stop going through my stuff because I really need privacy sometimes." I'm sure she'll understand.
    --Posted by avieller
    09:16PM EST 05/04/05


    
    Try to talk with her
    My mom snoops sometimes too. I think the best thing is to ask her if you can have a mother duaghter talk with her. Then tell her how you feel about her going through your stuff and ask her what's bothering her.

Maybe she just feels cut off from your life and doesn't know what to do. Let her know that you care and try to involve her in your life.
    --Posted by blackmoon_witch
    06:04PM EST 05/03/05

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