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It's normal to have feelings for your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend as long as you don't act on it. To make yourself feel more confident around your boyfriend I think you should focus on yourselves. Don't think about his ex.
--Posted by BellaM86
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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I would approach my boyfriend and ask him how he really feels about his ex-girlfriend. Also, explain to him that you feel uncomfortable when she comes around. If he really loves you, he'll try to make you feel as comfortable as possible.
--Posted by Dragonbabe2236
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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In that situation, just about anyone would feel uncomfortable. Ask yourself: Is he the kind of person who would cheat on me? Also, put yourself in his shoes. Would he lie to an amazingly wonderful girl like yourself?
--Posted by ChicChick18
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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Try to get to know her better, she may turn out to be quite a cool person. (After all, your boyfriend seems to have liked her at some point in time.) If you are not secure enough yet or just aren't sure, then make sure you're at least a couple feet in sight when they're both around. ;-)
--Posted by Devilish-Female
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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Jealousy is very normal and I understand why you would feel that way. I think trust is something that has to be earned. Also, she may still be hurting and that can cloud a person's judgment. Be happy you are with someone and try to enjoy the moments.
--Posted by laurel2683
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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