I was actually thinking the same thing as you. I'm a sophomore in college and I'm still a virgin.
Theres a boy I really like, but we aren't dating and haven't hooked up in any way for months. His feelings are different from mine, but I'm not sure exactly how he feels. I was thinking of asking him to get back into hooking up, and I was thinking, if it leads to sex, is that a problem?
Like what everyone else says, you need to have trust in him and be comfortable with him. Trust is key, especially as a teenager. Too many guys talk about who they have sex with, and it just isn't right.
Many girls regret their first time--at least girls I've talked to. But if you're sure about the person, I don't really see the problem. It's enitrely your own choice and no one else's!
--Posted by noreally_imfine
03:50AM EST 05/07/08
