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my bf's black--he won't tell people at school about us

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my best friend is 'perfect'

stop whistling at me!

piercing vs. my parents

my boyfriend loves britney

i get teased because i am fat

i'm the only skater girl...

no one else at school is gay

my friends say i'm an oreo

goth and proud of it

i'm mormon and my friends tease me

does my tomboy style drive him away?

my boyfriend's ex still likes him

she has a crush on me

how do you get over someone?

we like the same guy

she only talks about her boyfriend

how can i calm myself?

i'm white, but i'm dating a black guy

i have no privacy

i can't stand my step-mom

everyone thinks my sister's better than me

my family is really poor

my dad doesn't like my friends

i'm falling for my best friend

my friend dates boys i like

my best friend is bisexual

i'm christian but my friend has no idea who god is

my friend has been drinking and doing lots of drugs

i just moved and i have no life

my friend is homophobic.

how can i make friends at my new school?

i'm failing math

i like this guy in my class

french kissing is gross...

i am so pessimistic

i'm afraid to show anyone my poems

i'm nervous about public speaking

people always call me anorexic

i'm scared of guys

my mom thinks i'm insane

i told my friend she's fat

my friends think my boyfriend is ugly

i'm the other woman...

i hate compliments

moody boyfriend...

my christian cousin is gay...

we start dating, i lose interest...

how can i show him that he's being racist?

i am a perpetual liar...

i'm crushing on my gay friend...

my friend's boyfriend likes me...

my mom uses me to get closer to my sister...

my friend is a freeloader...

i hate seeing my mom kiss her boyfriend...

my sister is anorexic...

being confident is boring...

i'm in love with two people...

she's conceited and it's driving me nuts...

her singing voice sucks...

if a guy asks me to dance, how do i say no?

i like him but he's a player...

my two best friends don't get along

i think my boyfriend's cheating...

mom thinks my homecoming date is ugly...

we're friends with benefits but i love him

how do i stand up to a "mean girl"?

i like my friend's boyfriend.

i get teased me because i'm jewish...

i look ugly in pictures...

i look horrible in photos.

what should i get my bf for xmas?

My friend is the biggest flirt.

i can't express my feelings...

my friend is the biggest flirt.

i saw my friend's bf cheating on her...

i don't want to share clothes...

my bf's mom has cancer

my bf got another girl pregnant...

my friend uses her ADD as an excuse

i've got scars on my legs.

i play football

my sister and i like the same guys

my friend's stealing my stuff

my parents fight about money

i'm ashamed of my house.

he asked another girl to prom.

me and my best friend have been drifting apart...

i don't relate to christian school.

my mom focuses on mistakes i've made in the past

my mom's been snooping...

my boyfriend isn't cute.

is he flirting or making fun of me?

how do i tell my mom i want to be a vegan?

I lied about dating a younger boy, my mom would think I'm a loser

I am getting my wisdom teeth out and I am really scared.

My friend is competing with me

my dad insults me

my best friend has a new best friend

i really like my best friend

my boyfriend wants to read my diary

my parents don't believe in dating

my friends tease me for being skinny

are you supposed to shave down there?

i'm an atheist but my mom's a lutheran

my boyfriend never calls me

i want to change my rep for the new school year

my friend thinks i'm the girl of his dreams

both sides want me to choose between them

i have to share a room with an eight year old

i'm 16 and i've NEVER had a boyfriend

my two closest friends just started going out with each other

my mom read my diary

i can't dance

all my friend talks about is her new guy

my friend's mom keeps interfering in our business

my friend makes rude comments about my weight

i'm not allowed to date!

how do you stay friends?

my friend's a perfectionist

my friends are playing tug-of-war with me!

i want people to stop making fun of me...

i cannot get along with my mom...

my boyfriend only wants to hang out with his friends...

i am tired of being single...

she's saying things behind my back...

cheap and thoughtful bday present ideas?

my mom won't let me wear a thong...

how do i let him down without hurting his feelings?

he really has changed but nobody else sees it...

i feel like i'm losing my best friend...

he says if i loved him i would have sex...

i haven't been doing very well in school...

my friend's step-dad just died...

i'm scared he's cheating on me.

i'm scared to sing in front of people.

i have a hard time talking to guys.

i have a hard time talking to guys.

i think she's interested in me...

i am in love with my best friend's boyfriend.

they make fun of me because of my race.

my boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me in public.

my best friend's mom hates me.

i don't have the same feelings for him anymore.

the boys in school make jokes about my boobs...

should i make a move on my crush?

how do I know if i'm in love?

my friend is very homophobic.

my mom and i are always yelling at each other.

my friend doesn't know i like her brother.

my boyfriend has a problem with overweight girls.

my best friend likes my ex-boyfriend.

this one guy makes fun of me.

my boyfriend's family is extremely poor.

i still feel like that fat girl.

my boyfriend is ready to have sex but i'm not.

my eyebrows make me really self-conscious.

i want to be a singer.

my parents are paranoid about me dating.

my best friend ignores me when she has a boyfriend.

i called my friend 'nasty' for not using a condom.

they think i'm anorexic, but i'm not.

my mom is a big emotional mess.

he's been talking to his ex-girlfriend.

my best friend is in love with a complete loser.

what makes a good best friend?

i'm not doing well in school.

my best friend is slowly changing.

is it weird to want to wait to have sex?

i'm embarrassed to buy birth control.

my friend is constantly putting me down.

i get upset when i see my crush and my best friend together.

i just found out my dad is really my step-dad.

my best friend is gay and i think i like her.

why are guys only interested in non-opinionated girls?

i want to be on birth control. how do i ask my mom?

i don't blend in at my new school.

my mom won't let any of my friends drive me places.

my best friend's mom thinks i'm a TOTAL druggie!

my boyfriend doesn't trust me.

my best friend chose her boyfriend over me.

none of my friends take me seriously.

i'm 16 and engaged.

i want to find my real dad.

my best friend slept with my other best friend's boyfriend.

my best friend and my boyfriend can't stand one another.

i'm afraid to go to the prom because of my back acne.

everyone sees me as a tomboy...

i like someone two years younger than me.

my boyfriend is really moody and takes his anger out on me.

I'm noticing annoying things about my best friend that never used to be annoying before.

my dad and grandma are always fighting.

i think my boyfriend's best friend is trying to break us up.

how can i stop being unfaithful and stick with one guy?

i'm a christian but my boyfriend doesn't even believe in god.

i can hear my mom having sex with her boyfriend at night.

what are the pros and cons of waiting to have sex?

how do i gain back my boyfriend's trust?

i have pale skin. should i go to the tanning salon?

i am in love with my brother's best friend.

how do i make a good first impression on my college roommates?

i have my license but my mom won't let me drive on my own.

i don't think i'll have any friends when i go back to school

my parents are getting divorced and i'm freaking out.

i like this guy, but he's four years older than me and lives 600 miles away.

i hate catcalls. what should i do?

my boyfriend's going to college and i'm worried about our relationship.

i don't trust my best friend's boyfriend.

i just transferred to a new school. how do i make friends?

i really like this guy but he has a baby.

everybody makes fun of my big nose.

my boyfriend tells his best friend EVERYTHING about our relationship.

i want to play different music than the guys in my band.

everyone knows what they want to be in the future and i don't.

my boyfriend never wants to hang out with just me.

i told my friend i'm bisexual; now she's acting different around me.

my mom hates my best friend.

i received an email from an old friend who hasn't spoken to me in years.

my boyfriend's best friend is a girl. they spend a lot of time together and i hate it.

i'm starting to like my friend but he's gay. what should i do?

i'm dating this guy that everyone says has an STD. how can i be sure that he's clean?

my crush only sees me as a little kid. how can i get him to notice me?

my dad looks at porn online, then blames my sister and me.

my boyfriend cheated on me and i can't get over it.

my mom doesn't like my boyfriend because he is not christian.

i don't have feelings for my boyfriend. should i end the relationship?

i don't believe in premarital sex but the guys i like don't share the same beliefs. what should i do?

everyone at my school makes racial jokes, and it makes me feel really awkward. what should i do?

my boyfriend gets mad at me when i talk or hang out with my guy friends. what should i do?

i'm labeled as the black girl who acts "white." it's so annoying.

i like this guy, but now my best friend feels like a third wheel.

prom is in april but everyone already has a date--except me!

my boyfriend doesn't do anything special for me. i just want to feel more love...

we are friends with benefits, but i want more. how do i tell him?

my friend is extremely clingy. how do i get her to leave me alone?

i've been depressed lately. has anyone ever been to therapy?

i love my boyfriend, but i don't know how to tell him. should i wait for him to say it first?

my best friend went off to college and i feel like she doesn't care about our friendship anymore.

my boyfriend's best friend is a girl he used to have a crush on.

should i tell my mom that i'm not a virgin?

i'm really self-conscious of this huge birthmark on the back of my leg.

my boyfriend is going to his ex-girlfriend's birthday party. i'm afraid they'll make a drunken mistake.

the butterflies i used to get around my boyfriend have gone away. is this a bad sign?

my parents don't support my vegetarianism. what can i do?

i'm afraid to tell my friends i'm bisexual. what should i do?

does your first time always have to be with someone you love?

how do i break up with my boyfriend without hurting him?

i have a hard time finding clothes that fit. where should i shop?

my boyfriend is moving way too slow. how can i speed things up?

my best friend smokes weed every day. i'm worried, but she won't listen.

my best friend wants to read my diary. how do i keep my private writing private?


I've always been insecure about my big nose, and last year at school it seemed like everybody started making fun of it. I tell myself I don't care what they think, but I really do.

How can I not care if people say my nose is big?

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    So What?
    When you waste time being hurt by what others say, you are putting your worth in their hands. No wonder people are cruel! It's all about self-esteem, and making one's self feel superior. If you have enough confidence and respect for yourself (which of course you do!), you can look past what these people say (who are so insecure they have to lash out at others) and move on with your life. Don't let you nose, or any other "flaws", define you. Rise above! And never forget to say, "yeah, so my nose may be big (and beautiful) but so what I'm also good at other stuff and a good friend. You can't touch that."
    --Posted by keepdapeace
    01:56PM EST 09/13/07


    
    Love Yourself No Matter What
    People make fun of my nose, but - to be honest and not conceited - I am very pretty. And my nose is longer than an "average" nose. Don't let it bring you down. You are gorgeous! Keep your head up.
    --Posted by ki1la_kate
    11:34PM EST 09/11/07


    
    Idiots!
    People are idiots. They're ignorant, and you can't let them get to you. I know insults are, well, insulting, but you just need to try your best to ignore them.
    --Posted by calliemann
    09:26PM EST 09/11/07


    
    Big Noses Rule!
    Most of my favorite actors have big noses (Alan Rickman for instance) and I find it incredibly sexy. Some signficant other out there will adore your big nose and you'll be happy! The only reason they're making fun of your nose is because they are insecure themselves. By pointing out other people's insecurities they make themselves feel better. So ignore those people and love your big nose!
    --Posted by surfer_gurl_at_heart
    11:25AM EST 09/11/07


    
    Old Joke!
    If they just now started making fun of your nose, of course it's going to hurt you. But soon the jokes will become old and they won't even bother you anymore. You must learn to love every part of your body. People hurt others to boost their own confidence - remember that.
    --Posted by aubrionna_8
    06:15PM EST 09/09/07



    
    It's Beautiful
    You know, as an artist, I adore big noses. The only profiles I will paint are those of large, aquiline noses. Your face has character, a difference that makes you stand out. They're jealous because your body (albeit without your consent) refuses to conform to their standards of beauty, which, frankly, I think are boring. Embrace your big nose! It makes you beautiful.
    --Posted by prettypainter
    05:27PM EST 09/09/07


    
    
    I used to have the biggest nose, and everyone would call me clay nose, and I'd just be like "Yeah, I have a big nose! I've known that for a while, and your point is?" That usually gets to them. anyways i grew into mine i think its still a little big but eh i guess its one of my unique qualitys
    --Posted by italyskrisx
    02:44PM EST 09/09/07


    
    Confidence
    I totally feel you on this one. When I was in the 6th grade, there was this girl who would always make fun of my nose, and I never really noticed it until then. I'm in high school now, and I've learned how make other parts stand out.

My eyes are a big focus, and nobody ever talks about my nose anymore. But it's all a confidence thing...you gotta learn how to embrace it. It's a mind thing once you ignore people who make fun of you. They'll move on. I wouldn't want an average nose anyway. Who wants to go through life being the same as everyone else? =)
    --Posted by sexifreshman1
    02:45AM EST 09/09/07

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