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Talk To Them
I think that if you love them both very much and really want them to get along, ask them to talk separately. Ask them what they don't like about each other and then explain to them what is going on.
Tell them you love and care for them both and that you need them to get along for your stress level's sake. Just don't let them make you decide between them.
--Posted by suicide_is_4me
03:41PM EST 03/19/07
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Honestly, I know how you feel! I think that if you love them both very much and really want them to get along then ask them to talk separately, ask them what they don't like about each other. Explain to them that you love and care for them both and that you need them to get along for your stress levels stake. That's about the best I can tell you. I wish I could tell you more. Just don't let them make you decide between them!
--Posted by suicide_is_4me
03:41PM EST 03/19/07
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Jealousy, Maybe?
I think that both of them are jealous of the other, which shows that they care about you. Your boyfriend is jealous of your best friend, and your best friend is jealous of the boyfriend. They probably just don't want to share you. I think, when it really comes down to it you HAVE to make a decision. I'd dump the boyfriend. Best friends are forever-- boyfriends are temporary. I've been in a similar situation and the boy who hated my friends was a scumbag. Maybe he's not meant for you after all.
--Posted by chyomommax
08:09AM EST 03/18/07
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Quite a sticky situation. I think they're both afraid of losing you. You need to tell them if they can't put they're differences aside and try to get along, then you're done with both of them. It seems harsh, but they'll get the point.
Try to set up a conversation between them to get all the bad feelings out. They might discover how trivial they're being.
--Posted by whatever_it_is
06:59PM EST 03/17/07
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What exactly don't they like about each other? If they were getting along before why all of a sudden can't they now? Talk to both of them and find out what's going on.
It's nice to spend time with your friends and your boyfriend, but you don't want to do that all the time. Sometimes spending days apart is a good thing.
--Posted by hislilarmybrat
03:15AM EST 03/17/07
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No, you cant just "forget'" about your boyfriend.
That's just taking the easy way out, which may not leave many people happy--especially you. Perhaps on weekdays (after homework and such) you and your boyfriend can hang out, and once Friday and Saturday come around, spend that time with your best friend. But you can't just forget about your boyfriend, unless he's not worth trying to resolve this conflict.
--Posted by exit.here
01:40AM EST 03/17/07
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I'm Same.
Martina is right: they hate to share you. They feel like, "she likes her boyfriend more," or "her friend is so much more important to her."
Next time you see them fight just say, "you guys both mean so much to me. I love you both please stop fighting." Then, try hanging with both at the same time.
--Posted by mrs._rocker
04:52PM EST 03/16/07
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Sounds Like Jealousy To Me...
It almost seems like they might be jealous of each other! Maybe your best friend resents your boyfriend because he takes up time that used to be reserved for your friend. And, maybe your boyfriend is mad because he wants to be the most important thing in your life.
It sounds like both of them love you, and maybe they just don't like sharing you. If this is the case, you need to show both of them how special they are to you, and why the other person is also special. Hopefully you can show your best friend what you see in your boyfriend, and vice versa.
--Posted by martinamartina
04:17PM EST 03/16/07
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You need to forget about your so-called boyfriend because if he was a true boyfriend he wouldn't care about your best friend. Your best friend has been there for a long period of time when boyfriends are just temporary....
--Posted by przsexygreeneyes
09:59AM EST 03/16/07
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