I'm 18 years old and still a virgin. Most of my friends aren't, and because I live in Northern Europe, people are pretty liberal--you don't have any kind of pressure on you to stay a virgin until marriage.
In fact, almost everybody has sex before they marry. I don't have a boyfriend, and I'm really scared to get one bacause of all the pressure. Does anybody feel the same way, or is it weird to want to wait?
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Wait for Love
My friends and I are always talking about this very topic. One of my friends is waiting for marriage, one has already lost it to her first love, and then there is me. One of the things you have to understand is, this is your choice. People make a big deal about sex, but the truth is, when it comes to women, there has to be something for us to truly enjoy. Over the years I have repeatedly heard that the best thing to do is wait for love. The first time is going to be scary, and you want to wake up next to someone who is going to care if you cry or not. --Posted by bewitched1618 09:41AM EST 11/16/06
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