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i'm falling for my best friend

my friend dates boys i like

my best friend is bisexual

i'm christian but my friend has no idea who god is

my friend has been drinking and doing lots of drugs

i just moved and i have no life

my friend is homophobic.

i told my friend she's fat

my friends think my boyfriend is ugly

how can i show him that he's being racist?

i am a perpetual liar...

my mom uses me to get closer to my sister...

my friend is a freeloader...

she's conceited and it's driving me nuts...

her singing voice sucks...

my two best friends don't get along

how do i stand up to a "mean girl"?

My friend is the biggest flirt.

my friend is the biggest flirt.

i saw my friend's bf cheating on her...

i don't want to share clothes...

my friend uses her ADD as an excuse

my friend's stealing my stuff

me and my best friend have been drifting apart...

My friend is competing with me

my best friend has a new best friend

my friends tease me for being skinny

my friend thinks i'm the girl of his dreams

both sides want me to choose between them

my two closest friends just started going out with each other

all my friend talks about is her new guy

my friend's mom keeps interfering in our business

my friend makes rude comments about my weight

my friend's a perfectionist

my friends are playing tug-of-war with me!

i want people to stop making fun of me...

she's saying things behind my back...

cheap and thoughtful bday present ideas?

i feel like i'm losing my best friend...

my friend's step-dad just died...

i think she's interested in me...

my best friend's mom hates me.

my friend is very homophobic.

my best friend likes my ex-boyfriend.

my best friend ignores me when she has a boyfriend.

i called my friend 'nasty' for not using a condom.

my best friend is in love with a complete loser.

what makes a good best friend?

my best friend is slowly changing.

my friend is constantly putting me down.

i get upset when i see my crush and my best friend together.

my best friend's mom thinks i'm a TOTAL druggie!

my best friend chose her boyfriend over me.

none of my friends take me seriously.

my best friend slept with my other best friend's boyfriend.

I'm noticing annoying things about my best friend that never used to be annoying before.

i don't think i'll have any friends when i go back to school

i don't trust my best friend's boyfriend.

i told my friend i'm bisexual; now she's acting different around me.

i received an email from an old friend who hasn't spoken to me in years.

i'm starting to like my friend but he's gay. what should i do?

i like this guy, but now my best friend feels like a third wheel.

my friend is extremely clingy. how do i get her to leave me alone?

my best friend went off to college and i feel like she doesn't care about our friendship anymore.

i'm afraid to tell my friends i'm bisexual. what should i do?

my best friend smokes weed every day. i'm worried, but she won't listen.

my best friend wants to read my diary. how do i keep my private writing private?


My best friend is in love with a complete loser. He lies about everything, he's a jerk and he cheats on everyone he dates. I wish that she would see him like everyone else does--as a complete waste of time--but he leads her on and tells her everything that she wants to hear.

I want to find her a nice boyfriend that she can spend time with and not have to worry about where he is or who he is with. How do I get her to realize what a loser this guy is?

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37 member responses

    
    She'll see it...
    If he's a complete loser and she still sees something in him then there must be some kind of special love they have. The best thing to do is let her love him and try your best to be happy for her and when she gets hurt then you'll be there to help her stay strong and encourage her that he wasn't the best guy for her and there's someone else out there for her.
    --Posted by dude_i_love_u
    04:18AM EST 10/18/06


    
    Let her know how you feel
    Tell her how you feel about him, and make sure that you voice your opinion. Do it in a calm manner, and be supportive. Let her know that just because you feel this way, you will still be there for her no matter what decision she makes. Hopefully, your friend will realize that the guy is bad news and she'll realize what a great friend you are to her.
    --Posted by indie_lover24
    01:27AM EST 10/18/06


    
    
    I don't think you should listen to what your friend is saying and continue to go out with him until you catch him cheating. Then it would be good to dump him. Don't go by what people say. Do what you think is right.
    --Posted by drapercity
    08:09PM EST 10/17/06


    
    Let her Follow her heart
    Just stay by her and let her make the decision.
    --Posted by aintnoway14
    06:26PM EST 10/17/06


    
    
    If she's happy then let her be.
    --Posted by browni_eyes
    06:08PM EST 10/17/06



    
    Love is blind
    She's not going to want to see his faults if she likes him as much as you say she does. She CAN listen to you though. Tell her that you don't want her to set herself up for heartbreak and warn her of this guy's past. Tell her that you're happy that she's happy with him, but that you just don't want her to become another statistic for him. If she doesn't want to listen to you, she's making her own mistakes. You can't say you didn't try to warn her.
    --Posted by sydneyk
    05:46PM EST 10/17/06


    
    My friend did the same exact thing...
    Only she went out with him 5 times and he broke up with her all of those times. Everytime they broke up, she'd say she'd never go back to him. Then they'd go out again and I'd get super pissed at her. That was the worst time ever. It's her who has to change her mind, not you.
    --Posted by gurly_girl2892
    10:44PM EST 10/16/06

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