My mom and I have always been close and I tell her everything. But since I got a boyfriend, we seem not to be talking as much because I am usually hanging or talking with him. Lately, it seems like we are always yelling at each other and I find everything she says mean. She also always gets angry with me. I just miss having my mom to talk to and be my friend. What should I do?
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Just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean that you need to spend all your time with him. If you talked to your mum about what you think is happening to your relationship then perhaps you would stop yelling at each other. I think your mum is upset about and doesn't like the idea of losing her baby, but at the same time she wants to you to see that she still loves you beneath the yelling and not spending much time with her. --Posted by nutta_about_f1 08:50AM EST 06/22/06
She may think that she is losing you.
I think that your mom think she is losing you. She loves you, but she thinks that things might be changing between the two of you. Maybe she's just scared. --Posted by schaniel 10:09PM EST 06/21/06
Talk to her!!
I think that all you need to do is TALK to her. I'm sure she'll understand. Just tell her how you've been feeling, and tell her that you think you and her have lost the warm, loving connection you had before. Start setting up certain times to hang out with her- go to a movie on a Sunday, or schedule a short shopping trip on a day that she has off. I'm sure she'll LOVE to hear that from you, and it will make her realize the good daughter she really has. --Posted by ilovecwick 10:08PM EST 06/21/06
She misses you and you're just growing up...
I think if you just talk to your mom about your relationship maybe she will notice that you are growing up and she is losing her baby..and she doesn't want that... Always put your family before any boy and don't worry... This will all pass and you two will be best friends again... My mom and I went threw it and sometimes we still go there. --Posted by born_2b_hated 06:29PM EST 06/20/06
well
Maybe your mom yells at you because she want to show you some love. There are many different ways of showing love and she might be going through a lot so cut her some slack. --Posted by stephiegurl121 02:52PM EST 06/20/06
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