I'm 17 and have DD boobs. It has been really hard. All the boys in school are constantly making jokes. They don't do it to be mean--they are just boys, but it has really been hurting my feelings. I feel like I'm overreacting, but I don't know how to make them stop. I don't want to tell the guidance counselor because they are mostly friends of mine and I don't want to get them in trouble, but I can't just say "You're really hurting my feelings." What should I do?
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Tell them to stop
I have the same problem and guys are just mean. Tell them to get out of your face and that you're sick of it. They'll get the hint and stop. If they don't stop, then maybe you should just take a break from them. They're not really friends if they don't stop. --Posted by baby_barbie_gurl 02:49PM EST 05/23/06
Don't ever use the term "boys will be boys"- there is no excuse for guys saying cruel things to you about your body! They have no right to make you feel bad about your basic foundation, YOUR BODY. They obviously don't value you if they are making these jokes, so I suggest you go to your guidance counselor and talk to them about it. Or, you can verbally say, "Shut the hell up! You're being pervy jerks!" --Posted by on_the_bratmobile 05:25PM EST 05/22/06
I understand
I've been a DD since I was in eighth grade. It's not easy being 13 when you're that big. People used to make fun of me too. I just ignored them, unless they got too mean. Then I'd bitch them out. Or, I'd tell them "Take a good look boys, cuz this is as close as you'll be getting to real ones." Just handle it your own way. Just don't kill someone... --Posted by ill_b_his_mrs 04:55PM EST 05/22/06
Blush it off
Just as a joke, be like "YEAH, YOU KNOW YOU LOVE IT". Guys will love your confidence and maybe lay off :) --Posted by fuchastar 03:45PM EST 05/22/06
I sympathize with you because I'm also 17 and have DDs...so everyone makes fun of my boobs (including me)... but honestly, you CAN just say, "stop, its hurting my feelings." They're boys...they don't understand anything that isn't straight forward. If that dosn't work, make fun of THEM, put them in your shoes, see how they like it. --Posted by cigarettesex 12:25PM EST 05/22/06
Just get in their faces
The next time a guy does that, slap him and say, "Hey, I don't want you to talk in such a disgusting way and that hurts. You are really disgusting and immature." And if you slap them hard enough, they will respect you. It's not right and it's disgusting that they do that. --Posted by gurly_girl2892 06:10PM EST 05/21/06
You are your boss
You are your boss! Quit kidding around with them, even if they are your best friends. They are hurting your feelings, that's a fact. So tell them that you hate what they're doing. They should stop it if they're really your friends. And if they don't, you've got nothing to lose, so go ahead and tell them to mind their own chests! But, you know what? They are boys, they like boobs, and boy do they like huge ones! So maybe they're acting like that cause they know they can't have them! And because now you know that, they are the ones who look funny to you, right? --Posted by glyna_08 02:21PM EST 05/21/06
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