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I'm filling out very fast, but not growing much taller so I look kinda chubby. This is ok but my dad keeps calling me "chubby bubby." I've asked him to stop but he won't! He insults me a lot and won't stop!

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    Let it out
    Well my advice is to talk to your dad and ask him, "Would you like me to do that to you?" Or, you can ask, "Why do you think it is right for you to do that to you daghter?" It might work.
    --Posted by lifoxyjj
    04:03PM EST 06/21/05


    
    Don't ignore it do it
    When your dad insults you maybe you should try doing something to: a)take your mind off of it (go to the mall, movies or to a friend) or b)express yourself (draw or write or paint, call a friend). I hope I helped a little with the problem.
    --Posted by hopelesswunder
    01:16PM EST 06/20/05


    
    Talk
    Well, there's really not much you can do. You can try talking to him, which I think is the best way. Sometimes talking doesn't always help--just because you talked about it, doesn't necessarily mean it will go away. You should be very direct with him and tell him, "Dad, you really hurt my feelings when you call me this. Please stop." It might not work right away, but he will definitely get the message. Good luck with this!
    --Posted by kelseygall14
    04:22AM EST 06/20/05

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