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Talk and move on
OK, he really messed up. But you shouldnt be hurting cuz of his dumb mistakes. So what I think you should do is... yea talk to him and tell him how bad he hurt you and let him know what you want to happen. If he doesn't decide to go with you and drop her, then MOVE ON. He will see what he is missing out on sooner or later and let's hope sooner rather than later. GOOD LUCK!
--Posted by cryingrose08
08:26AM EST 03/31/05
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Ouch.
Looks like you've been hit right in the heart there. Ask him why he did that, because like angelbaby_209 said, there is probably a reason why he did so. Maybe he didn't think you would find out. Maybe he didn't think you would care. But apparently you do, and if he avoids answering your "why" or doesn't give a good reason why he went with another girl, then he's not much of a friend. He doesn't deserve to have you as a girlfriend if he's asking out another girl.
--Posted by madamkitty
08:00PM EST 03/30/05
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Communication
Hmmm...You said that you and this dude were dating, but that he was your best friend. Tell him that you are upset and confused, and tell him what your relationship with him means to you. Listen to his response. What you saw as a date, maybe he only saw as hanging out. That's no one's fault. When guys and girls hang out, the definitions of certain activites becomes iffy. Don't fret. Go to the prom w/ your girlfriends or another guy friend. And if the guy you like finds out that you really like him, there could be a chance for you guys going out in the future.
--Posted by rosethorn20
01:31PM EST 03/30/05
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Talk it out!
You really need to talk this out with him and ask him WHY he did that, when you thought your relationship was going so well. You need to be honest with him when you two talk about this, because then he will most likely be honest with you. What else may help is to TELL him to be honest with you. Just a suggestion!
Sarah
--Posted by sarah27
09:34PM EST 03/29/05
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I'm here 4 you!
Wow...that is a big no-no. You really need to talk this over with him. Ask him why he did it. There might be a reasonable explanation for what he did. If not, you should tell him that what he did is not cool. Tell him that you can't deal with him asking other girls out. If he really loves you he'll understand and ask you to the prom. If he's acting like a little know it all then DUMP HIM! He does not deserve you! Most importantly don't let him bring you down. Remember, guys come and go.
--Posted by angelbaby_209
11:33PM EST 03/28/05
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