I am dating a black guy who recently moved to America from Haiti...We really like each other and and stuff. We go to the same school, but he doesn't want anyone to know about us because people get on our backs a lot and say he can find a hot black girl instead of me. I'm pretty, and I could have other guys, and he could have other girls, but we just like each other. Our families know and think it's cool, but he wants me to keep it a secret in school. Is it disrespectful to me, or is he just trying to keep drama out of our relationship?