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my bf's black--he won't tell people at school about us

does my tomboy style drive him away?

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she has a crush on me

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he asked another girl to prom.

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is he flirting or making fun of me?

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my boyfriend never calls me

i'm 16 and i've NEVER had a boyfriend

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should i make a move on my crush?

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he's been talking to his ex-girlfriend.

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i'm 16 and engaged.

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i really like this guy but he has a baby.

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my boyfriend never wants to hang out with just me.

my boyfriend's best friend is a girl. they spend a lot of time together and i hate it.

i'm dating this guy that everyone says has an STD. how can i be sure that he's clean?

my crush only sees me as a little kid. how can i get him to notice me?

my boyfriend cheated on me and i can't get over it.

i don't have feelings for my boyfriend. should i end the relationship?

i don't believe in premarital sex but the guys i like don't share the same beliefs. what should i do?

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my boyfriend doesn't do anything special for me. i just want to feel more love...

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my boyfriend is going to his ex-girlfriend's birthday party. i'm afraid they'll make a drunken mistake.

the butterflies i used to get around my boyfriend have gone away. is this a bad sign?

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my boyfriend is moving way too slow. how can i speed things up?

my boyfriend refuses to meet my parents and now my family dislikes him.

my boyfriend said if i want him to remember me i should have sex with him.

my boyfriend has been mean to me ever since his grandfather died.

i want my girlfriend to tell her parents she's gay.

my boyfriend's mom wants me to go on birth control, but i don't think i want to.

my boyfriend wants to take a break because i don't believe in god.


I think I'm falling for my best friend's boyfriend. What should I do?

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    Girl don't even try it
    It's ok to have your feelings, but don't even go there. Like the other girl said you probably only feel like that because you see all the nice things he does for her or you're always around them so you think he's cute. ... Feel it out a little and see if [your feelings] go away.
    --Posted by success2
    03:19PM EST 11/11/04


    
    Think about what you really feel
    I have a bff and she has an awesome bf. At first I thought I liked him but it turns out I didn't. It was just that we were always together. You should just try to concentrate on some other guy because if you really value your friendship you wouldn't want your bff to get hurt just 'cause of some guy.
    --Posted by pinkcowgirl
    03:06PM EST 11/10/04


    
    STOP!!!
    I have done that before, recently actually, and it tore me apart. I felt that I was better for him than she was for several reasons, but in the end, I was wrong.
    --Posted by cruzindagetto76
    08:10PM EST 11/09/04


    
    Never jeopardize a friendship for a guy
    It doesn't matter how you feel about your friend's boyfriend, it matters how you feel about your best friend. If you say that she is your best friend then going after her guy is a capital NO. Friendship is more important then any guy, and if you value your friendship then you'll stay away from him.
    --Posted by mscutiepie05
    02:53PM EST 11/09/04


    
    SoO SaD
    Well you can't stop love... I would just try to keep it to yourself for awhile... Just LAY LOW!! ... and try to avoid her B/F.
    --Posted by girlnblack
    11:53AM EST 11/09/04



    
    DONT TELL HER!!!
    Think about it...she really likes this guy (clearly she is going out with him). You are both in the same boat in terms of feelings, so imagine if he was going out with you and she tells you she is into him... You would be devestated!!! Your best friend likes your boyfriend. How would you feel? The best thing is try your hardest to get over it. He is probably really awesome, and you probably won't find anyone you feel the same about in a while, but DO NOT TRY ANYTHING while your friend and him are involved or she even has feelings for him.
    --Posted by cranberrys
    09:37PM EST 11/08/04


    
    Don't worry about it
    Chances are you feel things for your friend's bf because you see them together and all the sweet things he's done for her and you want that too.
    --Posted by rebelswimmer
    06:48PM EST 11/08/04


    
    Best friends are forever!
    This happens to everyone, it's happened to me, and I'm telling you, get over it! Your best friend is worth so much more than this guy. It might be hard at first, but remind yourself that this is your best friend and you don't want to hurt her. Just try not to hang around them as a couple to avoid getting jealous and falling for him. Good luck!
    --Posted by wierdanna
    06:32PM EST 11/08/04


    
    um....well
    I think that you should tell your friend. 'Cause it will be really hard for you to keep this secert and it's better if you tell her now then if she finds out later on and gets really ticked off! So if I were you I'd tell her!
    --Posted by ShelZie8
    03:11PM EST 11/08/04

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