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I like a guy, but he is a player. The longest he's had a girlfriend is probably two weeks. He likes me though, and I'm not sure if I should go out with him. He seems nice. I know it won't last long, but should I go out with him anyway?

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    Lemme tell you this
    My friend is a total player and he has taught me everything I know about boys. Boys use every advantage you give them to make you feel horrible. NEVER EVER GIVE THEM THAT ADVANTAGE. Show you don't care and if he really cares he'll see you're a strong person and won't take you lightly.
    --Posted by cookiescreame89
    09:07PM EST 09/29/04


    
    play right along with him
    If he wants to be a player then why can't you be one too. So that way neither one gets hurt because you will have another guy on the side and he will have another girl.
    --Posted by angel-express
    06:06PM EST 09/29/04


    
    The Player Dater
    Date him. If he breaks-up with you, who cares? You'll get over him. When he goes with other girls you go with other boys.
    --Posted by shawnette
    08:55AM EST 09/29/04


    
    Do what you think is right.
    That's really weird cause I am in the same situation. ... I would say start out as friends, so you can observe how he treats other girls. Over time see where things go.
    --Posted by samsta4245
    09:46PM EST 09/28/04


    
    Don't take things so seriously!
    I am assuming your a teenager...right? It's not like you're going to marry the boy (well most likely not). I am going to give you the same advice that I give to all my other friends on teenage boys," I always tell the girls never take it seriously, if you don't take it seriously you never get hurt, if you never get hurt you always have fun!"
    --Posted by NikitatheBiotch
    08:41PM EST 09/28/04

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