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They are probably feeling completely out of control, which can be really scary for parents. So you're just going to have to show them how well you're managing your life. For starters, keep everything out in the open. They might trust you some more if they meet your bf, looking all nice and tidy and on his best behavior. And most importantly: DON'T GIVE UP. Keep on doing what you know in your heart is right.
--Posted by Kate
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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There really is nothing that you can do to make your parents understand or change their minds. Sometimes, even if you don't agree with what they say, your family is just looking out for you. I'm black and my mother would prefer if I dated black people. But really, my mother just wants me to be happy.
--Posted by Yaswood
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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It seems like your parents need to chill out. You should help them out by telling them how you feel and how you want them to accept you for the choices you make. Once you start standing up for what you believe, they'll listen to you.
--Posted by Skirtgirl18
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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I think you should tell your parents how you feel about him. If they still won't let you guys date, be mature and agree to their standards. If you let them see that you are responsible and can take care of yourself, they may re-think their decision. If not, only THEN is it time to be irrational and make noise. All people are equal. Your parents are wrong and are being unfair.
--Posted by dbriley
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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My parents are an interracial couple and most people just accept it. Your parents need to understand that your feelings aren't theirs. When my mom told her family that she was marrying a black guy, they went ballistic! But one of her mom's friends calmed them down. Do you have a close family friend that might be able to help? Talk to them. It's probably a good thing that you're dating a black guy; it will teach them something. Hang in there!
--Posted by ereed
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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