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The best way to get over someone is to let yourself feel whatever it is that you're feeling. Cry if you need to. Spend an entire weekend lying on the couch eating Ben & Jerry's and watching lame movies. But then the next weekend you need to get up and get out of your house. Go out and party. Loosen up and meet new people. Push him out of your mind. Hopefully he won't keep popping up in your mind, because you got your feelings out and you've moved on with your life :)
--Posted by Laura89675
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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Chances are, if you like a boy, in your mind he's pretty much flawless. The fact of the matter is that he's probably not as perfect as you think. Just try clearing your mind of the reasons why you like him, and observe him for a while. He might not be as wonderful as you think. But before you do this, make sure you really want to get over him. It's okay to like someone, even if he doesn't like you.
--Posted by Rachy888
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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You can do what I sometimes do, you can write a letter to the guy putting all of you emotions in it and keep it somewhere. Don't send it to him and don't tell anyone about it. That way you don't have to worry about what other people will think. Sometimes, even friends just aren't enough.
--Posted by AsGurl1818
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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1. Wear a rubber band on your wrist and every time you start to think about "him" lightly pop it. Eventually you'll break the habit of thinking about him.2. Ask your friends not to mention him in conversations and things like that.3. Occupy your time. Lie back and relax.
--Posted by prissy_britches
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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My advice is to do something that you love and enjoy doing. Have some alone time. When I try to get over someone or need some "me" time, I take a hot bubble bath, curl up on my bed with a bowl of popcorn, read magazines, or watch some of my all time favorite movies. Trust me, it works.
--Posted by Lyndzo
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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Music can help with ANYTHING. Even if listening to it can be painful because there are songs out there that might remind you of him, it's actually a GOOD thing! You can listen to music about love gone bad and it'll probably make you feel better about yourself. It's okay to have a good cry, because your sadness and anger are swelling up inside you. I suggest you listen to music that sets the mood, and rain your eyes out till the depression has faded.
--Posted by teddygrahms
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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I don't know who this guy is or what he is like, but I went through the same thing not too long ago. I'll tell you what I did. I had all of my best friends come over for a sleepover. We played games, watched TV and movies, and talked all night. Not once were we allowed to talk about boys, especially my ex-crush. After that, I kept myself busy and stayed clear of that certain guy. Eventually, I got over it and began to even forget it ever happened. Trust me, this will work.
--Posted by supagirlie999
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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