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It can be worse to not get divorced
I am a child of divorce, too, and most of my friends are as well. I know so many couples who are unhappy and will never get to live happily because they don't want to get an official divorce. Just because two people are technically married and live in the same house doesn't make them and their kids a family! Not getting a divorce often leads to much worse things than not getting one. Telling someone to stay together for the sake of staying together is like asking them to live a lie.
--Posted by lesyeuxbleu218
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i don't get the whole "stay together for the kids" thing. my parents were divorced when i was five and it didn't screw me up. if anything, i'm more stable now. my parents aren't fighting every two seconds, and miserable, like they would have been if they had stayed together. my parents are friends, and my step-dad, and his whole family's amazing. my parents loved each other. hence the getting married thing. so it's not a matter of why'd they get married in the first place. and it's not a depressing thing for me. it's just part of my life.
--Posted by angelbrat234567
If you spend years trying to work it out, but it doesn't work, get devorced. I have a friend who's parents aren't going to get divorced, but they don't really speak to each other, they sleep in seperate rooms and they only say bad things about each other. Wouldn't you rather have your parents divorced then have them fighting for years?
--Posted by horsespeaker
If you spend years trying to work it out, but it doesn't work, get devorced. I have a friend who's parents aren't going to get divorced, but they don't really speak to each other, they sleep in seperate rooms and they only say bad things about each other. Wouldn't you rather have your parents divorced then have them fighting for years?
--Posted by horsespeaker
If you spend years trying to work it out, but it doesn't work, get devorced. I have a friend who's parents aren't going to get divorced, but they don't really speak to each other, they sleep in seperate rooms and they only say bad things about each other. Wouldn't you rather have your parents divorced then have them fighting for years?
--Posted by horsespeaker
depends
people should try to work their relationship before giving up but if they tried everything and still don't get along, that's when divorce is good =D
--Posted by independantfire666
It's Whatever
Its a divorce. Stick it out whatever happens, happens. At least you'll get two people trynna buy u lots of stuff!
--Posted by roccstar
Marriage sucks.
I say I dig divorce the people who are marry should not stay together for the rest of their lifes that's why I don't want to get marry so I dig it.
--Posted by bigbrat010
The kids so know.
i dont like my dad, mi sis doesnt either. and mi mum hates him. mi sis and i could just tell mum hated him and there was no love. im not depressed about it!. i would love for them to get a divorce. i would then finally be happy.
--Posted by gorggurl
even if
my parents are divoreced and i know it sucks for alot of kids..but i have to say arnt you glad they were married in the first place for you to be born i believe everything happens for a reason and even though i wish for people to work there problems out and stick together i know that sometimes its for them best of eveyone if two people dont live together any more because any one can get along but it takes alot of work to live together
--Posted by gym11kid
well,
i dont really think divorce is a good thing because i personally know how hard a divore can be, but after my parents split they were boh alot happier.
--Posted by member12
people need choice
if someone is unhappy, its far better than cheating on your spouse.
--Posted by emolie
stability
Sometimes it's imperative that a couple get divorced in order to preserve the psychological well-being of the rest of the family. If the two parents are always arguing or being violent with eachother, than that's not healthy for anyone, including those parents. Divorce can be a healthy thing in some cases.
--Posted by ladyclover
--Posted by kaceface55
divorce or unhappiness
id rather get a divorce then be stuck with someone i dont love or fight with constantly. true it can be hard on the kids but everyone else seems to work out fine.
--Posted by glambrunette
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JUST THINK OF ALL THE KIDS WHO PARENTS ARENT EVEN TOGETHER BEFORE YOU SAY ANYTHING ABOUT YOURR PROMBLEMS!!!
--Posted by ksaw130
JUST THINK OF ALL THE KIDS WHO PARENTS ARENT EVEN TOGETHER BEFORE YOU SAY ANYTHING ABOUT YOURR PROMBLEMS!!!
--Posted by ksaw130
JUST THINK OF ALL THE KIDS WHO PARENTS ARENT EVEN TOGETHER BEFORE YOU SAY ANYTHING ABOUT YOURR PROMBLEMS!!!
--Posted by ksaw130
why did they marry in the first place?
i live in the philippines and there is no divorce here!
--Posted by tiffy_4ever
I've been through it!!!!
Divorce sucks... I mean I'm glad my mom got a divorce cause my step dad did drugs and still does drugs and he is dateing a 17 year old girl... But when they got a divorce me, my mom and my brothers had to move and me and my mom had to get jobs and have a lot of responsibility.. I have school, work, home life and I'm engaged... Ever since the divorce I've been really stressed out...Everyday at school I have to hear about how my step dad or my ex step dad is dateing a 17 year old and she is pregnant. My mom works all the time and when she is not home I'm like the mom to my brothers. I cook, clean , do my homework, help my brothers on their homework. then around 8pm I go to work and get off about 1 or 2 in the morning then go home take a shower go to bed and wake up at 6 the next morning to go to school...So yeah divorce sucks bad it puts the oldest child through a lot of stress!!!!!
--Posted by brittanyjean69
the kids
it sucks. most kids wish that the parent, ya know, would stay together, unless one's cheating, doing drugs, drinking or somethin. but when you think about it, it would suck if parents tried to stay together for the kids. fightin and stuff. it sucks like world war 3.
--Posted by desrosiers73
Y did dey start in da beginning?
i believe dat divorces r da most horrible things dat can happen 2 a child and their parents. like y even marry eachother and then bout 3 or 4 years later get a divorce. i am a child of 2 people divorce and its hard. i never get 2 c my dad, my mom iz alwayz yellin at me every wakin minute, and 1/2 of da time, i blame myself 4 dem breakin up. jus bout all of my friends either have their dad, or jus get 2 c him. Me, im jus 1 lonely sole wit a mom and a grandma dat tries 2 help me in wayz. i'll never know wat happen between em 2.
--Posted by lildee0692
it sucks for all
the parents, kids, friends, but it just shows you that you have to be carful with who you choose to spend your life with
--Posted by kazekodomo
Divorce is an awful life experience
I think divorce is sad and family-ruining. But sometimes it can be good such as when a woman marries some jerk who treats her bad in any way and she bravely walks away then that's a good way for the woman to start over and start a new life. But then there's the kids to think about and they worry which parent will take care of them and love them most. Thankfully my folks have been happily married for 20 long years.
--Posted by iluvaiden
I understand when it's because of abuse or addiction or something, but, when it's just something lame like 'it just wasn't exciting enough' it makes me want to gag. I mean, think of you kids! Weren't u serious when you made those vows? please people, this is a serious matter, please treat it as such.
--Posted by trueblue93
Wow..
I just can't believe people actully digged this.
--Posted by woah_its_nicolee
i rather people not......
like i have suffered from my parents gettin divorced before i was born....its a weird thing to see how much things flow easier wen both parents are still in the same house....its easier 4 children and sets a good example. its hard to see step this and that move in after another....just work it out no matter what....(especially if children are involved)..if its really really bad..then do watever u gotta u noe..but that should be then last resort not the first........
--Posted by mook09
It's not easy with divorced parents.
Sometimes it's just really hard to go through. It's been a major rollercoaster for the last 12 years that my parents have been divorced. And my dad lives an hour away and still expects me to go see him every other weekend and I have a life in my home town that I really don't want to leave for 4 days out of the month. If my parents had stayed together, we would have a much better life.
--Posted by gurly_girl2892
THey should work it out
My parents got divorced this summer and it sucks. They still talk to each other pleasantly, but I hate having to pack up some clothes and homework every other Friday and drive to go be with my dad all weekend in another city when I could be with my friends. I think that every couple that wants to get divorced should get councelling to make sure that it's the only option, regardless if it has to do with their religion. I think it would be the best for every one in the family.
--Posted by like_omg_27
its horrible.
--Posted by chicababy_x
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