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abortion

what do you think?
dig it or dis it
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Digs

hmmmm...
i don't think abortion is good, but i think it's essential. women shouldn't be forced to carry an unwanted pregnancy. period. it's their body and their choice.
--Posted by starvacancy




Personally, I don't really like the idea of getting an abortion...however I think women should have a choice. What if someone was raped and got pregnant?
--Posted by winterbabyy




its a woman choice and its her body if she wanted 2 do it it her choice i wouldnt do it myself but i kno ppl who has done it n it there choice nobody got the right 2 tell a woman dat they cant have an abortion n 4 the fact if she can open she can take care of a baby is wrong cuz a girl can get rape or she juss dont want a baby rite now in her life
--Posted by luvfukoff



so what?!
abortion is not a crime. it is your body, and you decide what to do with it. the baby isnt even born yet, or even that big. the babay could even become a drug dealer when he/she grows up. so what effect on the world is that? especially if you get raped. you now have to keep that baby for something you didnt decide to do? no, i dont think so.
--Posted by cheap_plasticxring




well, this is a touchy subject. it shouldn't be posted
this is just my opinion o abortions so please don't pounce on me: its a shame to see an unborn baby not able to live becuase its mother doesn't want it. but, truth of the matter is to leave that baby on the earth to grow up not knowing it's irresponsible birth mother is a painful thing.but who knows if the baby lives and gets adopted by a good family it could live a nice life. im really confused to say if its wrong or not but if you never wanted a baby than be cautious when having sex. woman should always have an open choice though.
--Posted by frenchfriluver





i think it's a very personal choice, but i don't think i would do it. Women should have a right, although you gotta draw the line when the baby is to old. And to those people with issues, fair enough .....but if you were raped and got pregnant what would you do??? i would get an abortion
--Posted by stephy002




I think its a womans choice whether she wants to have an abortion or not. Especially for unplanned pregnancies when the life situation isnt that great why would you want to bring a child into that and make their life living hell.Besides in the first few weeks the thing isn't even human yet..its just a blob.
--Posted by robyn1393




Death
If a mother is going to die from having a baby don't you think she should have aborationn espically if there is going to be no one to care for the baby. I'm not saying agree but not saying i disagree
--Posted by usherholic



not a consequence
having a baby is supposed to be a blessing not a consequence of having sex and not allowed to have an abortion. there is also the obvious what if you were raped question .. another good reason of why abortion should be allowed. and lastly, people have the freedom to choose what they want, if you don't like it then keep the child when you're pregnant, don't force your beliefs on someone else
--Posted by broknxheart




I don't have any problems with abortions. I think if a pregnant woman wants to have one then she should go right ahead and have one. It should be her choice and no one else's. I don't think it's murder to kill off a group cells. The real question for this issue is, "When does life truely begin?" If you think it begins when the sperm meets the egg, or when the mother feels the first kick, you're obviously not going to be for abortion. However, if you believe that life begins when the baby takes it's first breath there's a chance you won't find abortion as cruel as someone else might.
--Posted by snugpaps




Keep it legal!
Honestly, all you "omg its murder dont kill babies!!" people really need to sit down and think for a change. Being that the vast majority of pro-choicers aren't bloodstained proteges of Jack the Ripper, we actually have a point. What would you do if you were violently raped, especially if it was incest? Then your baby would be a constant reminder of that horrible occurrence, and it too would be cruelly stigmatized, particularly if it was deformed because of incest. As horribly written as "The Scarlet Letter" was, that book is a perfect example of the traumatic effects that having an unwanted child can put on a woman, in addition to the risk of postpartum depression. Plus, if I had ultrasound and I found out that my baby was going to be severely disabled and would suffer its whole life just to live and rack up thousands in medical expenses, I couldn't bear to live through that or have my child live through that. Roe v. Wade is still legal for a reason, and I think it would be a massive loss to Americans' right of free actions should it be overturned. And one last thought, concerning the harebrained pro-lifer argument that "the baby could've grown up to find a cure for cancer"...how exactly do you know that the baby couldn't have grown up to be a terrorist or murderer, either? Think about that.
--Posted by carscat



so vain.
So, i've read a lot of the responses under dis it, and its just made me even more angry then I already was. You all say its murder, and its so bad, but I bet 90% and even more of you eat meat. You kill animals like its nothing, but you think abortion is murder? I think its pretty immature and stupid what some people have to say about abortion. Its not up to you to dicide what other people should do with their own bodys, and if a lady wants to get an abortion, it is completely up to her. What if she was raped? What is she is to weak to have a baby? If your so worried about not being able to have a baby later in life, then adopt a baby, and stop complaining. If you don't want girls to have abortion, then stop having kids yourself, and adopt all the kids you just "saved" from outlawing it.
--Posted by stephanie_bonjeeto



Look at it this way...
Personally, I wouldn't get an abortion. BUT, personally, SOMEONE else would. This is a free country. You don't know whats going on in someone else's life. Its THEIR business, and nobody else's, including the government's. It IS legal, and that won't be changing, so I wish people would deal with it and get on with their lives. Abortion can only be done at a certain time during pregnancy, before the baby is even a what you'd call a "baby." Not to mention, I'm sure most of you eat meat. Thats killing animals. Right? Murder. Right? Ok then. Stop worrying so much about other people's decisions, and just focus on your own. Nobody is holding you back from killing animals for food, having freedom of speech, and going to church. So why try to limit someone else's choice? The end.
--Posted by deadinhollywood14



Look at it this way...
Personally, I wouldn't get an abortion. BUT, personally, SOMEONE else would. This is a free country. You don't know whats going on in someone else's life. Its THEIR business, and nobody else's, including the government's. It IS legal, and that won't be changing, so I wish people would deal with it and get on with their lives. Abortion can only be done at a certain time during pregnancy, before the baby is even a what you'd call a "baby." Not to mention, I'm sure most of you eat meat. Thats killing animals. Right? Murder. Right? Ok then. Stop worrying so much about other people's decisions, and just focus on your own. Nobody is holding you back from killing animals for food, having freedom of speech, and going to church. So why try to limit someone else's choice? The end.
--Posted by deadinhollywood14




your choice
its the mothers own choice and no others. im sure she would regret it in the end, but isnt this a free country?
--Posted by laurenisabot



130
Disses


Killing unborn babies is murder
I hate when people get abortions.. I think it's wrong. If they aren't ready for the consequences then they shouldn't have sex.
--Posted by heartbreakx3




It's a Gift from God
Most of the people that I know who have had an abortion were not able to have children when they were ready. The baby should not have to suffer for the mistake that the parents made when they laid down.
--Posted by anniecorchado




its murder!
having an abortion is wrong because if you dont want kids ant an early age......DONT HAVE SEX!!! i mean wat if when you get married and only have one child cause you cant have anymore? and they ask you mommy why cant i have a brother or a sister! its just pure evil to kill an unborn child yeah ppl say its just a fetus but it is still a baby! well thats all ok bye! and think before you act!
--Posted by twitch_01




horrible.
that's murder. obviously, you took the time to make the baby, be as responsible as you think you are and doing something smart about it, even if you can't take care of it, there are people wanting to adopt babies. don't be selfish.
--Posted by brittaneejanengr



OUTRAGIOUS!!!
I think it should be banned everywhere.It's just like murder. The baby does not even have a say! This poor inocent adorable life being killed because someone made a stupid mistake? DON'T PUNISH THE BABY FOR YOU'RE MISTAKE!!!!
--Posted by thecrazyalb7





Muder
YOU are killing a person who never got a chance to live. IT's wrong on so many levels!!!! I know sum1 who has done that and she totally regrett it's she felt really bad!!!!
--Posted by b-ballplayer_22



same
its the same as murder
--Posted by pink-skulls-xx




You should be ashame of yourself
i believe that killing babies is very bad..think about it some people arent able to have babies of their own..to see u wast babies like they are nothing really hurts to me even though i am only like 11...it is like u never want a baby but u never think about other people look at all those ppl crying because they have to adopt children instead of having any of their own..
--Posted by soccerdaph




I don't think abortion is the right answer no matter what the situation is. The child is innocent and deserves a chance at life. There are alternatives if the mother isn't ready or willing to raise the child. Nine months seems like small price to pay if it means another couple can be blessed with the child they are unable to conceive.
--Posted by releva215



not totally against it but more dis
I don't like abortions because i think you can give them up for adoption. However, i can see if its going to harm the mom or if the baby is going to have such a low quality of life (really deformed or something) that theres no point. In those cases i think people have to make the choice. But just for getting pregnant at a bad time? I dont think thats right, since there is adoption as an option
--Posted by random_strawberry





it dont care much
When i think about abortion for myself it really freaks me out...it IS a painful process and u can die from it just as well as u can die from giving birth...so whateva.. u do the math..
--Posted by fowaa




it dont care much
When i think about abortion for myself it really freaks me out...it IS a painful process and u can die from it just as well as u can die from giving birth...so whateva.. u do the math..
--Posted by fowaa



wat??
Now I know SOME people think that abortion is "right" if the person was raped but u should take away a baby's life because of someone else's mistake?? well let me tell u that really PISSES ME OFF and makes me want to vomit and I pray for those who have an abortion for any reason be it rape, your own will, because the docter says there's ANY complication, anything it's JUST WRONG! and my friend's brother was almost aborted but thank the Lord he wasn't cause his face makes me smile :) And today my religion teacher showed us an abortion movie maybe if you saw if most of you would change your mind 'cause that movie made me cry and realize the BS in our country and around the world..Killing and it's legal!! Because it's a person's right?? I don't think so... BS!! sum1 put in your mind....Now let me breathe im too mad! Let it be known one day Im going scream NO! to abortion like right now... God bless lol :-) ~Steffi~1/29/07
--Posted by mzbkfinest




Totally Not Right!!!
I am totally pro life!! I totally don't believe in killing a helpless baby, rape or otherwise..There are people just dying to have children and can't could adopt your baby, that baby could grow up to be something great! And to those saying it's my body I can do what I want with it, are severely mistaken..It's God's body. Carrying a baby for 9 months would be totally worth giving a family their first baby and seeing the smile on their face. There are plenty of people looking to adopt babies just give the baby a chance. Take your pride somewhere else, And to those who willingly had sex, yes it sux but killing an unwanted baby..thats like sayin' to someone you know hey I really don't want you around so I'm just gonna kill you off..Plus most people who have abortions find it EXTREMELY difficult to have babies once they finally want to...I just find it selfish..doin' everything to please ourselves..well I hope you guys make the right choice in pleasing God! 1-29-07 Vaya Con Dios! -Ash-
--Posted by xdustins_girlx



hell nall!!! FUCK ABORTIONS BY GROWN ABOUT YO SHIT
MAN WHO EVER GE THESE SHOULSD BE SENT TO HELL. FOR TAKING SOMEONES LIFE. ITS REAL SERIOUS SUPOSE YOUR MORTHER GOT AN ABORTION WITH YOU
--Posted by cheyanne123



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