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pessimism

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Pessimistic and proud!
I typically never look on the bright side... and so far, im doing just fine... i prepare for the worst... and thats what it typically is, so im not in shock and thing "LyKe OmGz, HoW cOuLd ThIs LyKe, HaPpEn To Me??" yeah, i hate ppl that type like that, and talk like that, stupid optimistic ppl, only think of the best.. but yeah, im not saying im never happy either, im just thinking realisticly and preparing for the worst
--Posted by hopeless2010



..
wow i feel dumb. haha wat does that even mean?
--Posted by archiez





I see the glass both ways, half full and half empty.. when it comes to other people, I'm usually optimistic about their situations, but when it comes to myself, I am the biggest pessimist I know. Meh.
--Posted by decemberflower




Pessimism
Personally being pressimistic has helped me though so much stuff! Drama at school? no problem for me. I mean really if I get in a crappy situation being a pressimist has made it all better! I used to be all "look on the brighter side of things" you get far too disappointed when your an optimist.
--Posted by tony_bony





I feel the same as decemberflower. I'm always optimistic about others but rarely about me! Weird thing, eh?
--Posted by sense111





Yup.
That's how I am. Always prepare for the worst. And I think you won't get your feelings hurt as easily if you are pessimistic.
--Posted by xx2tru_eliza3xx




it's who I am
I'rd rather be a pessimist than a optimist because, sometimes you gotta think negative and what not. I think like that all the time. "Pessimist is a word that optimists use for people who see the world for what it really is." -Holly(ME!) I think that it's to difficult. Your always happy and thinking that the world is never gonna end or go away.You have to as least think down and out sometimes.
--Posted by green_eyed_gal1



people
They just want to believe the worst so that wen something bad hapens they wont get dissapointed
--Posted by g_oodc_harlotte



I am somewhat pessemistic
The reason that i can look at the worst of everything sometimes is because after being let down so many times...after a while you just always expect the worst. Sometimes it just puts me in a better moode just to say that everything sucks and nothing will ever change...because then i hear how stupid i sound and it flips me around and i go all optomistic on you. Its a bad thing when a person is drowning in self doubt and self pitty, but it never hurts to chuck the silver lining of that rain filled cloud and just let out all of that sadness and hate and hopelessness that you feel but just hide it behind a smile. pessemism is my outlet.
--Posted by dietmonkey



Pessimism
I love pessimism! It's the best thing ever! It makes me so happy!
--Posted by squishylou





hereditary pessimist
okay i come from a family of them, and i know i can be totally honest ulike some optimists and i'm frank if i have to be. dont hate me jus cuz i'm angry :>
--Posted by sugarlipz



look optimism:lookin on the bright side of things/ pessimism:lookin for bad things that are going to happen
everytime im optimistic, things usually dont go my way anyway. so i look at things bad, so at least at the end i have no disappointments.
--Posted by frenchfriluver



Just being REALISTIC
When people think realistically rather than idealistically, then they become pessimistic rather than optimistic. I'm more in the middle. I see the glass as is: a glass with water in it. People that are idealitic are dumb dreamers. People who are realistic are dreamers that turn their dreams into action. If being real makes me pessimistic, bring it on. Although, I LOVE being happy. Motto: Expect nothing & you'll never be disappointed.
--Posted by red_dragon_ladii_29




I like it....
I am a VERY pessimistic person, and pessimism can be a good thing because when something actually good happens, your twice as happy & surprised as you would be if you were an optimist.
--Posted by maria989



Pessimissm
I am really pessimistic i nevr look at the good of anything. I am also depressed so it contributes to it alot.
--Posted by futurestripper69



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Disses


Although I usually am a pessimist, but I don't like it. But also, I don't like being optimistic && believing something good will happen to me && then realize it's not gonna happen.. That's what makes me an optimist.. I don't really like being around people who are really pesimistic. It makes me wanna knock them over the head && say get over it kid.. heh
--Posted by effingrockstar



?
wot does it mean?i dnt get it lol
--Posted by moosy-x




what does it mean?
i'm not sure but i think its something to deal with negativty and evil. well i'm not negative, I'm a happy person (sometimes) and i don't like evil because its bad for you.
--Posted by tinker_b




hope for the ebst prepare for the worste. pessimistic people are usually overly sarcastic, over catiose, and intensely annoying. theres no good way to be pessimistic all the time.
--Posted by sister_ray



spelling correction
hope for the best prepare for the worse. pessimistic people are usually overly sarcastic, over cautious
--Posted by sister_ray





DISS!
I dunno , like know this girl whos v/ pessimistic and open about it, It kindof annyos me, while me I'm more burst in tears then constantly negitive, I think its not good to have all your fealings locked up inside but also, it VERY! annoying wen people are sad all the time! its a turn off
--Posted by xopink_luvox




Middle
i think optimism and pessimism is bad, how bout relism?/ so u just take it for what it is without a bad attitude.
--Posted by h0tchick44




Pessimistic Smessimistic
Well i think being pesimistic is wrong and you should always think of the glass half full instead of half empty! Being happy and not glummy is way better because you have way more fun!
--Posted by roxrainbowsox




its no good
I come from parents who are so NEGATIVE and PESSIMIST about every aspect of life, they always make the negative comments everyday about us....Its not good it kills you slowly, your confidence, your self esteem...and its really hard to put up with pessimist who live with you. I am working very hard to overcome these negative influences.
--Posted by girliealex



life really could be worse
this doesnt include everyone but some ppl just whine about everything. other ppl do have it bad but im just saying u gotta look at the big picture cuz otherwise you dont realize what you got. and if you dont agree with me dont reply something back saying mean stuff i dong get why girls get all worked up over something they disagree about
--Posted by punkgurl19




Stuck in the Middle
Im very pessimistic, but i hate it, i really wish i wasnt this way but sometimes i cant help it, we shouldnt always be pessimistic or optimistic, we should be balenced on both. Not just full of doubt, even though i am, but look to the brightside on somethings at least
--Posted by dominatedloveslave



Yuck
Permissions sucks! I mean i get to do alot of things. But nobody likes to hear no are yes All the time . I mean get real!
--Posted by lemonsgirl51019



Nah!
Pessimism can sometimes be a way to attract attention (I feel). I think that we should stay out of pessimism because it brings every1 down! you lose friends with pessimism. I've been through pessimism and it feels very lonely.. I was officially titled or acknowledged as the "loner" because everyone couldn't deal with my problem so they ignored my existence!
--Posted by kiss.and.tell




Optimistic!
I am extremely optimistic. I really don't like when people can turn something happy into a prophecy of doom. There's this kid named Taylor I know. All he does is be negative. That is why I call him Mr. Negativity. Like, once, I was pushing this girl on a swing and he said she's gonna fly off and crack her head open on the concrete. Talk about irritating!
--Posted by fashionjunkie_8



its called depression
and thats wut pessimism can lead to because if you're always so negative you're gonna get stuck that way
--Posted by miniwheatz1



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