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group dates

what do you think?
dig it or dis it
40
Digs


I dig it
group dates are hot becaues you all get to hang out with cute boys!!!!
--Posted by kikki0



very good
they make it easier to get to kno some boys and u still get to hang out with ur friends
--Posted by tray92




Fun Fun Fun!
It just makes things more fun! Things don't have to be all romantic all of the time
--Posted by cara141



safe
because your date cannot rape or pressure you to do what you dont want to do and you will be safe
--Posted by cutiegirlie




hdshdagdagfdsgf
--Posted by babiblueies13




oh yer dig!
if ur having a bit of a wierd time in ur relationship or u feel under pressure from ur bf/gf with friends it's way more comdotable.
--Posted by andonemorething




better
I like group dates better because your not as nervous if u have more people and the guys dont expect as much because your with other people
--Posted by luv2wearpink




<3 them
I love group dates they are soo much fun..except when YOU have to plan them...it can get quite stressfull!!!
--Posted by tay-j721




<3 them
I love group dates they are soo much fun..except when YOU have to plan them...it can get quite stressfull!!!
--Posted by tay-j721




love em
group dates are so much fun! its a lot less nervewrecking when you are with your friends and on a date at the same time you can be less romantic and more fun idk how to explain just group dates are a lot more comfortable
--Posted by caribbeanqt01




LOVE EM!!!!
love group dates me and my bf always go on dates with other ppl and they come in handy when you don't want your parents to know about your bf. as a matter of fact i'm going on a group date tomorrow and me parents DON'T KNOW ;)
--Posted by lifeslove



LOVE EM!!!!
love group dates me and my bf always go on dates with other ppl and they come in handy when you don't want your parents to know about your bf. as a matter of fact i'm going on a group date tomorrow and me parents DON'T KNOW ;)
--Posted by lifeslove



Fun!
It's a great first date because you're less nervous with a group.
--Posted by shoushou86




I like them. I've been out on a few, it was fun because we didn't feel so alone and akward. I plan on having my kids group date before they can date alone. I do like being alone with my boyfriend, but sometimes we do like hanging with his friends. (Most of my friends are guys so that's not an option for him, though all his friends are guys...) Plus if you get a large enough group you can get a group rate on some things and everything is less. Some people who are shy won't be so shy because they're with friends. You can still get to know someone because part of being with someone is knowing how they interact in a group they're comfortable with.
--Posted by hislilarmybrat




safe idea
going on group dates is pretty much safe.you wont be alone or in danger when you date in groups.also,if your date is not going on well,you ll have your freind to be with and still enjoy provided she doesnt mind.
--Posted by shanukitty



15
Disses


i think group dates are fun, but i also love having time with just me and my bf.
--Posted by gurlstaff_karell



i really dont think it is a good i dea
Well i believe that group dating is not a good idea especially on a first date becasue you want to like get to know that person and just have a alone time. and going on group date can make the date go wrong because sometimes people have differnt ideas of what the perfect date is and when you go out with a alot of people you are going to have to take every opinion in consideration and are going o have to do what they want to do. I believe that it is just better to go out alone and it will b emuch easier to choose were you guys want to go and what you guys want to do and not have to take any ones elses ideas into consideration so i truely believe that it is a bad idea but then againg every one is entitiled to their own personal opinion..
--Posted by iluvstephen89



i really dont think it is a good i dea
Well i believe that group dating is not a good idea especially on a first date becasue you want to like get to know that person and just have a alone time. and going on group date can make the date go wrong because sometimes people have differnt ideas of what the perfect date is and when you go out with a alot of people you are going to have to take every opinion in consideration and are going o have to do what they want to do. I believe that it is just better to go out alone and it will b emuch easier to choose were you guys want to go and what you guys want to do and not have to take any ones elses ideas into consideration so i truely believe that it is a bad idea but then againg every one is entitiled to their own personal opinion..
--Posted by iluvstephen89




maybe...maybe not
itz sometimez good n sometimez bad...it can be good because, ur with ur friendz n it would be really hard for the boy 2 try anything that u wouldnt feel comfortable wit...it can be bad because it would be hard 2 get 2 kno the boy because there'z so many ppl around...so group dating has itz upz n downz
--Posted by babiigyrl155




hmmm...
i'm not a big fan of group dating, its fun sometimes, like if your at the mall, but a movie... i don't know... .. ... akward...
--Posted by punk_rock_princess7






they can be fun sometimes when yall are hanging out w/ all your friends...but you need your time alone ;)
--Posted by cherriesrkool64



Why?..
A group date might put you into the shadow, when you're supposed to shine for your date.
--Posted by star_thrower




At first maybe...
I think that a group date may be a good way to get to know someone without the "akward silences" and nerves, but after a while, you should be comfortable going out alone with them. If you can't be alone with them, it probably wouldn't work out anyway.
--Posted by pix56



hell no
i like bein alone with my guy!!!
--Posted by smokingirl69



oh god!
ew no! why wud u want ppl around? that makes ur guy uncomfortable! duhhhh! bsides, wouldnt u prefer to be alone? I SHUUUUR AS HELLL WUD AND DOOO!
--Posted by xox_leo_xox





oh god!
oh god!! of course not! i wud rather be alone with my man, and if his friends are around then he'll be a lil cautious and wanna chill wit his friends. I prefer it wehn its only me and him and no1 knows what gon happen next, if u now wata mean.(if u need ur freinds ther, then u arent that serious about the guy cuz u dont feel comfortable being alone with him)
--Posted by xox_leo_xox




they kewl ..but not
i like group dates..but sometimes i just want it to be me and my bf..because then like we really get to talk ..without friends always right there! cuz he doesnt really like my friends..and i dont really hang out with his friends! so ya..single dates r betta for me!
--Posted by x3savannahx3



its just not right!!!
that is just not right!!!
--Posted by sammisosa_21




its ok but watchout
Sometimes your date spends alot more time with the otehr guy instead of with u so you feel left out...that sort of happens to me...
--Posted by dustybacon



HATE EM`!
THEY SUX!...THEY REALLY SUX!
--Posted by jazzy_1960



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