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yea but it depends
If you both were freinds before you went out or you bacome eachother's best freind while you were goin out, stay freinds. However, if it was a bad breakup or one cheated on another...it might be better off left alone.
--Posted by jst_the_grl
yea but it depends
If you both were freinds before you went out or you bacome eachother's best freind while you were goin out, stay freinds. However, if it was a bad breakup or one cheated on another...it might be better off left alone.
--Posted by jst_the_grl
i think it's a good idea in theory, but it's definitely hard to execute.
--Posted by gurlstaff_karell
yeah
it's okay if you are friends with your ex but, it's definitely hars to execute
--Posted by sexy172006
I Go with both
i mean i have no problem wit them being friends but when you talk about being best friends and stuff that is not going to work. i mean if you are trying to move on to someone else he/she is really not going to believe you if you still hang around that person alot. but i believe you can be friends with someone after a break up
--Posted by kelflips
it all depends on the break up
I think that if the break up was a mutual thing and there wasnt a big problem then its ok to be friends, hang out, talk on tha phone or whateva. But if the break up had to do with cheating, decieving, lying, or any act of disrespect then a friendship is very questionable. It all depends on how much you are willing to forgive them for.
--Posted by lilelmo07
i think so
i think you can.
--Posted by devin_lynn
i think so
i think you can.
--Posted by devin_lynn
I think it could work
U and ur ex could still hang out together.
--Posted by sierrachefgurl
Its possible
IT is as bad as it sounds just b/c u broke up doesnt mean u cant still actually be friends who knows it might end up better (u guys as friends rather then getting together as something more)
--Posted by athina_bella06
itz great!
i dont think there's anything wrong wit being friends wit ur ex because if u were n a relationship wit a person the realtionship should have been based on freindship n the 1st place, so therefore the friendship should stay!
--Posted by andersoncandice
it's great but it doesn't always work
A few of my more serious exs are not friends anymore, its just wierd. But my not-so-serious ones are still my friends. Being friends with your ex is def a good thing, especially if you still like him ;)
--Posted by mcr226
Depends...
I think Its great, if you and your ex were good friends before you broke up. Me and my Ex were best friends before we got together and broke up, Now were back to where we were before the relationship. So, yeah.
--Posted by floatyhead
depends if he was a jerk
depends the reason y we broke up in the first place. if we broke up b/c we wanted 2 c other ppl den i would styll b friends wit him.but if he cheated on me or did sumthing that greatly offensed me den i wouldnt want to see him ever agian.
--Posted by little_flore
It's Just Like We're Still Together
my ex and I are BEST friends. it's not complicated at all. it's so good. it's better than when we were together!! WAY BETTER!!
--Posted by jonjala2007
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No Way!
I just cannot get along with him after we broke up. It does not seem natural.
--Posted by lvh_hottie
Your not With them anymore..........
The reason I'm dissing this is because when your with your exboyfriend they always seem to know your next move or they bring up the "old times."
it ok somtimes but its better to stay far away from them.Plus they usually know to much about you already.Another thing is that at the end of the day you either messed with him or did something else.
--Posted by geeababy
give it up!
i think that when ex's remain friends, one of them, if not both, is hanging on with the hopes of getting back together, even if they aren't saying it. they secretly want to be more than friends, but they'll take what they can get for the time being.i think that when people break up, they should move on. that was one chapter of your life, and its closed now, dont keep the book half open. you either read it or you dont.
--Posted by strawberry69
I gotta dis it
My boyfriend of almost seven months broke up with me recently. He left me for another girl. I simply can't remain friends with him; if he thinks the grass is greener on the other side, then he doesn't need to be in my life at all, because I am the best that he'll ever get. Not trying to sound cocky. However, I'm still friends with all of my other exes.
--Posted by mostlyfabulous
Nah..
Generally not a good idea. Only if your friend says it's okay & the two of them are completely over each other but even then feelings can get hurt. So I would stay away from the ex boyfriend.
--Posted by x__s3xii-full
my experience
ugh.. in my experience..it never works out well when you try to remain friends. one of you always wants the other back, but it probably doesn't happen. I've only had one past boyfriend remain my friend and we only went out for like a week and a half. why do u think most divorced people hate each other?
--Posted by babybiskit75
mmm not sure
I totally dis it but wish ppl cud b freinds with their exs, c i went out with this guy 3 years ago, we're kinda friends now, but we avoided each other for 2 years. It was just soooo akward. It still is. I don't like talking bout it. My friends always ask me for the details but i just change the subject everytime. So my advice to every1 out ther: dont go out with ur freinds, unless u want it to b really akward between them.
--Posted by babie_leo
i just can't see it .
if your in love with someone, and they break up with you.. i personally would find it hard to stay friends and watch them off with other girls, if i was still in love with him.
unless it was me who did the breaking up, but then it'd probably hurt him if he wasn't over me..
so i think its good to be civil, and talk a bit maybe afterwards. but not hangout and such, i think that'd be pushing it..
--Posted by beautyqueen697
It's posible, but no
Yes, it is completly possible, but I dont recomend it. U guys broke up 4 a reason.
--Posted by boreanaz_luver
wow
i dont think it works. i just got out of a relationship with someone who used to be my good friend. our friendship was the reason i didnt want to go out, but i did anyway, and now it will never be the same. i wish i could go back in time and stay just friends
--Posted by rubberducky5121
It's just no...
Things are weird after the two of you break up..I just couldn't be friend's w/ them w/out it feeling weird.
--Posted by mydepression92
Well...
I think it really depends on what kind of relationship you had when you were together & why you broke up. Sometimes It's really complicated after a breakup, especially if you've been together a long time and there's heartbreak invlolved. In that situation, it's pretty hard to just go back to being friends.
--Posted by abasketcase
it hurts..
If you were in love with this ex than NO!
I once tried to be "friends" with my first love. It just made the whole healing process so much harder.. cause we were so good as friends and sometimes I would have to stop myself and remember that we were "just friends". He of course thought it was GREAT! Sometimes I wouldnt be able to hold myself from him, and he could still go around and be single, but knew that I was still waiting to have out with my best friend. If you were in love than you really have to hate the person, then go to the phase of forgiveness (of all the pain he did), and then you have to be able to be his friend but have no more attraction to him.. thats when you know that you are over the relationship.. ( very long processs- took me about 1 year-good luck!)
--Posted by southernbell17
he's an idiot
i'm dissin because he's been since (we broke up) reating me like dirt, and he's the one who broke up w/ me!!!!!
--Posted by future_star20
Hell No...
I strongly agree with strawberry69. I mean that's one chapter close it and move on. Anyone and I mean anyone will still have some feelings for their ex. You shouldn't make it harder and try to be friends. People brak up for a reason.
--Posted by sheena07
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