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crushes

what do you think?
dig it or dis it
433
Digs


i luv em but hate em
cuz i like him so much but he has a gurl all ova sudden i find out his two best freinds like me even tho i really really still like him
--Posted by boyseeker101




crushes are good
i like crushes because that's how you first get a boyfriend and it's pretty fun especially when at first i just see some guy that i like than i tell my friends because i know they know i want them to blab it to his friends even though i know like all of his frineds (i'm one of those people that go from group to group) and they tell him and than usually if he dosen't like me at first our friends always get us together and we get to know each other and than i usually make them fall for me but like 65% of the time i always end up not likeing them after a little bit and they usually end up likeing me but crushes are really fun i love having crushes=)
--Posted by jewlz2289




They rocke except...
when he find out. I had that happen with one of the guys on my water polo team. Then he told a person I hate. But I still think he's hot.
--Posted by waterpologurl14




confused
i mean i lyke the idea it makes you feel good. but how do u let the person ur crushing on know without embarrassing yourself? you could find your self looking at them and not even notice that they are looking at you back and giving you a weird look. but sometimes you lyke them and they may find out and lyke you back it could go either way if you ask me. i just get confused on how to let them know that u lyke them with out getting hurt or your self esteem lowered.
--Posted by rockerchickita




confused
i mean i lyke the idea it makes you feel good. but how do u let the person ur crushing on know without embarrassing yourself? you could find your self looking at them and not even notice that they are looking at you back and giving you a weird look. but sometimes you lyke them and they may find out and lyke you back it could go either way if you ask me. i just get confused on how to let them know that u lyke them with out getting hurt or your self esteem lowered.
--Posted by rockerchickita





confused
i mean i lyke the idea it makes you feel good. but how do u let the person ur crushing on know without embarrassing yourself? you could find your self looking at them and not even notice that they are looking at you back and giving you a weird look. but sometimes you lyke them and they may find out and lyke you back it could go either way if you ask me. i just get confused on how to let them know that u lyke them with out getting hurt or your self esteem lowered.
--Posted by rockerchickita




It's normal^^
C'mon..to have a crush doesn't mean you already love the boy(but yeah..you may shout to the world that you love him)hehe...i also have a crush, it's because he's cute and sweet and a real gentleman, i like being around him!!!...but it doesn't mean that i want to throw kisses on him...i'm not that obsessed...okay yeah i want to kiss him..but still.. it's just a crush!...there are lots of boys in this world... and you can also have more than 1 crush..we also fall inlove..what is diffrent from a crush.. you can't do anything about it if you have a crush on someone!!!!but i know that it hurt if your crush starts drooling on some other girl...hehe..just chill gurls..
--Posted by beanne99



everyone has 'em
i agree withj beanne99... everyone has crushes! y dis it if uve also had crushes!it hurts sometimes but its fun! especially when ur crush turns out to like u 2! :D so just have fun gurls! it's all good! :P
--Posted by saucy_bee




LUV EM'
I luv having crushes..everyone who i have a crush on likes me back...but then again after the flirting relationship gets old..to them your getting old...so basically im cool with crushes..but half the time they dont lead anywhere...
--Posted by datshorti87




ummm....
crushes are cool whether the guy likes you back or not. Just the thought of fantazing about that one guy makes a gurl feel all warm inside and its a great feeling.Even if the guy doesnt like you back its ok because its not like you excepted it to last forever. It just a crush:P:).
--Posted by beben3na




inbetween
I like having crushes but sometimes its annoying cause sometimes u dont want to go out with that persojn but like yur friends like try and hook you up and its like i dont want to do that!
--Posted by kaylacaliente3




i LOVE having crushes!
Especially the hopeless ones, like on Johnny Depp or Hayden Christensen or even the guy whose barely your buddy and you KNOW he's not great anyway but still for some reason you feel like you're deeply and madly in love with them. Just to have someone to hope for, even if you know that there IS no hope, a reason to change yourself, make yourself at the same time a better person and more unique, something to talk about, a new part of your identity... I love, love, love to feel like I'm in sudden love!
--Posted by tata_the_nifty




yeah
its good to have chrushes espiecly when they chrushing on you
--Posted by babeluv4



sure..?
Yea, sure. if u really like someone then yah its cool, but not when they dfont like u back then no. but ya..haha
--Posted by archiez




Crushes
I think it's ok to have a crush, because someone is always going to catch your eye, but there is a good and bad thing with crushes, because sometimes the person you like, will like you back, then again they sometimes won't, but all in all it's ok to have a crush!
--Posted by kc1020



205
Disses


2 painful
i kinda like the idea of crushes but i dis it b/c if they don't feel the same way it hurts and ur stuck with all these feelings and the one u want is either 2 scared 2 say anything or they just don't feel tha same
--Posted by sexy_shauniece




Uh...I dunno
I mean..crushes used to be okay but when it came to this yr...omfg i dunt wanna talk about it. The guy had a "best frend" who he knew since he was 5 and she had a crush on him. So, when i come along all of a sudden its a ***in war. Nd she started saying shyt about me which i didnt find out until at the end of the yr. and plus, he's a yr older than me so he graduated already ;( He doesnt relle no the real me, he has only heard the fake rumors and lies so that relle hurts. Nd the worst ***in thing is..im STILL NOT OVER HIM!! God!! please help me!! becuz of all this crap..im not gunna have a crush on any1 anymore. its like, last yr was maad fun, i'd do it all over again. but when i think back..its relle sad...
--Posted by xxbbgurlxx



hmmmm
crushes suck when they dont like you back..and you spend all this time thiking about them, and wanting to know how they feel about you, or if they even know you're alive. yet, crushes are awesome when you can tell that they like you back. so a crush could be awesome, or annoying. i have a crush on this kid in my gym class, and he never looks my way..and every chance he has to talk to me he doesnt. but when i see him in the halls he'll look right at me. thats why i hate crushes, they're so confusing.
--Posted by cuteboringlove




NUH Uh!
It never even works if ya like someone so I just dont like em'
--Posted by greendaygurl018




YUCK
yuck crushes suck, especially the ones that will never return the crush, like a rock star or the quater-back of the football team
--Posted by hawthorne14





They suck.
--Posted by jessannmarie



confuzzuling
i never know wether to persue my crushes or just keep my mouth shut, the one time i did open my mouth, it was to a guy who i knew hated me. Having crushes makes me feel stupid. I always act like an idiot around the guy i like. Sigh...
--Posted by katy_sachiko714



blah
i hate having crushes. its fun to day dream butl rather have the real person. like sterling or adrian
--Posted by dracos_biatch



I prefer to get over my crushes asap.
I hate having crushes on guys because I just feel so silly and I know it's infatuation and I only like the guy because he's cute. It's just frustrating when I'm infatuated with a guy for shallow reasons and it's obvious that he's oblivious to me, and I know that a relationship based on that could never last. Plus, I just cringe later on when I finally get over my crush and ask myself, "What was I thinking?!"
--Posted by polkadotkoala




I hate having crushes. It makes me feel silly, like I'm some kind of slut or sth. I hate ppl who crush on me, because it kinda restricts my privacy. So all in all, crushes sux.
--Posted by watermelonrind




kinda
I hate having crushes cause after a while it gets annyoing cause if u cant get the guy, why bother crushing?
--Posted by pinkpuff1210



i don't like it
i can't stand those girls who "talk" about their stupid crushes behind their backs. why won't they hang out with them and then tell them the truth? wierd
--Posted by pico669x



weird
to have a crush is so weird. i've had them and i've had people have crushes on me but i like to be straight forward.
--Posted by dragon_gurl





it gets on my nerves cause ur always fantizizingv about him/her and u never tell him/her
--Posted by lilpiglet05




crushes are silly and immature. i don't get them anymore.
--Posted by sister_ray



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