Romeo, Romeo, wherefore art thou, Romeo? Your dating situation reminds us of the way girls went about it in Renaissance Italy. Do you spend most of your time daydreaming about dramatic love affairs? Or do you long to spend more time with your sweetie (but your family disapproves)?
During the Italian Renaissance girls were not allowed outside on their own, so they often communicated with their suitors from a balcony a la Romeo and Juliet. It was commonplace for boys to serenade their beloveds. If the girls weren't interested, they would hide indoors.
Boys in the Italian Renaissance usually spent time with a gang of friends called a brigate who would escort young couples or go out together looking to meet girls.
Holiday festivals were special times when girls and boys were together in social situations; older girls were often seated in the doorways of their homes to be shown off to the town. Just like you, right?