If you value the freedom to sow your wild oats before tying the knot, and a laid-back attitude toward love suits your free spirit, then perhaps you would have been sizzling under the warm island sun of 19th century Micronesia! Your dating preferences are similar to the girls who dated then.
Do you like to sneak out of the house to see your sweetie? You might have fit right in with single Micronesians who met in secret places for dates in the middle of the night as a precursor to courting. They called it "night crawling."
When a Micronesian couple wanted to express their commitment to each other and their intention to marry, they would return home from "night crawling" during daylight and show themselves in public together.
In Micronesia, marriage was rarely marked with a ceremony or any promise of lifetime fidelity. Once parents agreed to a match, you could announce a marriage, move in together and start a family without judgment.
Breaking up was just as easy--when a Micronesian girl wanted to stay friends with a suitor, she would let him know by giving him a "pity gift." Now that's a thought...