Dear Heather,
I met this guy at the prom who was a friend of my friend. We both started dancing together all night--at that time I thought he was a nice guy and he could dance well so I should hang out with him.
We talked all night and I started to like him. When the last dance came around, he kissed me. I was shocked and literally glowing. I was excited at first because I never meet guys that are so sweet and nice.
Soon after that, we went to the beach with a group of our friends and we were like honeymooners--holding hands, kissing good-bye, and never leaving each other's side. But by the middle of the afternoon, I felt I needed some space.
The next day, I ignored him at all costs. He called me and said how much he missed me. But I felt like I was losing my space and I was not free.
He kept calling, but I avoided his calls and didn't want to talk to him. I couldn't handle his emotions, while at the same time I didn't know how I felt. So now it has been some time since he called me last and I am starting to miss him. I look at pictures of us together and think about how happy I was with him and wonder what is wrong with me to lose such a great guy because of my dumbass issues. I want to call him. I tried so many times but what can you say to someone you obviously have hurt?
Do you think I still have feelings for him or what? I don't know what to do. If you could help that would be awesome.
