A: First, you are not alone.

It can be hard to find people who understand and are there for you. And school can be a scary place, especially for anyone who is different in any way. The good news is that there are some steps you can take.

Find out if your school or community has a queer/straight student group or GSA (Gay-Straight Alliance). This might be a place to find some allies or, in other words, some people who've got your back! If not, find a safe adult at the school and consider starting one yourself--there are lots of resources to help you at the Gay Lesbian Straight Education Network (GLSEN) and the GSA Network.

Consider whether and when to talk to your friends. Think about caring adults you know (family, friends, teachers, school counselor, doctor) who may already be in your life, and who might be good advocates. And consider talking with teachers and administrators about small changes that can be made (like teacher training or safer bathrooms and locker rooms) that would make a big difference. Change your school (and society) one person at a time!

"Bending The Mold: An Action Kit for Transgender Youth" has a lot more ideas for you and your allies to make your school safer and more inclusive for all students. Check it out!

High school can be the toughest time in a person's life to feel "different." But it is important to remember that for many people the ticket out of a bad situation is a good education. If you feel it is not possible to obtain your education in safety, explore other ways to complete your education.

Some high schools let students take a few college classes during their regular school day. This may get you into a safer classroom for at least part of the day, while also giving you a head start toward a college degree. Other college programs let you "early-admit" or start college full-time before high school graduation. They will admit high school juniors in some cases, especially if they show excellent academic promise. These colleges then award high school diplomas to early admission students after they have completed a certain number of courses.

The GED is another option. The General Educational Development program provides an opportunity to earn a high school equivalency diploma. It allows a student to show they have a level of learning comparable to that of high school graduates. The GED is sponsored by the American Council on Education.