If you think that you may be in an abusive relationship, talk with a trusted adult or call one of the hotlines listed below. You can also go to the police or a lawyer to try and get criminal or civil restraining orders that prohibit your abuser from coming near you and/or people you live with (absolutely necessary if the abuser has threatened to kill you). You must carry the order on you all the time for it to be effective. Violating a restraining order is a crime punishable by imprisonment and/or a fine. However, enforcement can be tricky—especially if both parties go to the same school or work in the same place.
Boys and Girls Town National Hotline
provides counseling about safety when you're in an abusive relationship, and can refer you to someone for ongoing help in your area.
National Domestic Violence Hotline
is a hotline for domestic violence victims. Call if you think you are in an abusive relationship.
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National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)
is an activist, grassroots group seeking to end domestic violence against women and children.
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline
is an online community where you can find support and information to understand dating abuse.
Dating Violence: True Stories of Hurt and Hope
by John Hicks (Millbrook Press) tells the stories of teenagers involved in abusive relationships--both physical and emotional--with resources for help.
In Love and in Danger: A Teen's Guide to Breaking Free of Abusive Relationships
by Barrie Levy, M.S.W. (Seal Press). A guide designed to help with numerous relationship issues.
Changing Bodies, Changing Lives: A Book for Teens on Sex and Relationships
by Ruth Bell (Times Books). A superb book covering all aspects of teen sexuality, relationships and coping with life.
The Go Ask Alice Book of Answers: A Guide to Good Physical, Sexual, and Emotional Health
by Columbia University's Health Education Program (Henry Holt). Based on the website, the book answers questions about a whole range of health, sexuality and emotional well-being concerns.
Mixed Matches: How to Create Successful Interracial, Interethnic, and Interfaith Relationships
by Joel Crohn Ph.D. (Fawcett) discusses the difficulties in mixed relationships and talks about ways to negotiate the pitfalls.
Go Ask Alice! answers a multitude of questions about health, dating, sexuality, drug use, depression and more.
Teen Advice Online is devoted to answering teenagers' questions about a wide range of subjects.
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