8 Tips You Need To Try When Fingering Girls

If you’ve never hooked up with girls before, there are obviously some different changes to when you’re hooking up with guys. There is a familiarity to the situation, given that you have a vagina and your partner will have a vagina, but there are some helpful tips to consider when you’re fingering a girl.

If you like to finger yourself when you’re masturbating, you might have developed your own techniques. That can be helpful when you’re doing it to someone else as you have something to go off of. However, everyone is different so what works on you might not be someone else’s jam. There’s also the fact that doing something to someone else is different than doing it to yourself because you cannot feel all of the *amazingness* down there. Click through the gallery to see eight tips you need to try when fingering girls.


Add Some Lube

Vaginas have their own mechanisms for getting wet, but a bit, okay, sometimes a lot, of lube can make the situation more enjoyable. You might have firsthand experience of that. If you and your GF are nervous, you're both inexperienced, or you just want to make sure that the experience is as pleasant as possible, add in some lube.

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Take It Slow

Think about how much your vagina can clam up when you're nervous. She is probably feeling the same way. Therefore, it's probably not the best idea to just shove a finger up her cooch, no matter how small it is. Take it slow and ease into things. Play around with her clit or rub around the outside of her vagina. It should help loosen her up down there.

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Check That She's Comfortable

You might think that it will ruin the mood if you ask your partner how she is doing. Far from it. It's actually better to show concern and make sure what you're doing is okay. There is a chance that she could be uncomfortable, but she is afraid to speak up. You might have been in the same position. If there's something a bit off, hopefully she can tell you and you can adjust your game for the ultimate experience.

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Don't Forget About Foreplay

Any sort of penetration is better when it follows some good foreplay. So, don't skip it. Foreplay will hopefully make everyone more relaxed while turning you both on. It can also help you get a better idea about what your partner is into and what she's not as keen on.

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Experiment With Different Sex Toys

Fingers can be mighty pleasurable, but there are sex toys that take the experience to the next level. There are tiny finger blasters that you can wear like rings or thimbles which basically turn your finger into a vibrator. Plus, you could try using something to massage the clit while you use your finger to penetrate her vagina.

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Add In Oral Sex

You don't have to strictly finger someone. If you're comfortable and your partner is into the idea, you can add some oral sex into the mix. While you're fingering her, you can also try stimulating her clit with your mouth. Kissing and/or sucking any area down there while fingering will heighten the experience and possibly make her orgasm.

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Think About Your Position

People tend to have a habit of lying or sitting at the end of the bed when they're fingering. However, there are many hot positions you can try. Get inspired by some of the hot blowjob ones, or try a 69-like position. Make sure that you're comfortable and that you don't get overly complicated just for the sake of it.

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Remember The Clit

I get that you will probably want to focus your attention on inserting a finger up her vag, but multitaskers can also try working the clit at the same time. While you're fingering, use your other hand to stimulate her clitoris. If that's too much for you, you can encourage your partner to get involved by masturbating as you finger her.

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Have you ever fingered a girl? What are your tips? Let us know in the comments!

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