8 Tips On How To Make Anal Fingering More Enjoyable

When you’re not that experienced, a lot of sex stuff can be intimidating AF. Blowjobs and putting the P in the V are things that people are concerned about, but butt stuff holds a special place as being the thing that seems to worry people the most. Anal fingering might not be as *big* as inserting sex toys up your butthole or having anal sex, but it can still freak people out. It shouldn’t because it can be enjoyable.

If you’re considering trying anal fingering, but you’re worried about it being uncomfortable, there are some things that you need to do to ensure you have an enjoyable experience. With a little prep work —and remembering a few things — you might just find that anal fingering is as good as other mind-blowing sex acts. Check out eight tips on how to make anal fingering more enjoyable.


Get Lots Of Lube

Lube is the secret to making most sexy situations more enjoyable. Lube will reduce friction which will make inserting fingers easier. So, don't be cheap with it. It's better to use too much than too little. Make sure fingers and buttholes are thoroughly greased before starting the act.

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Relax. No Really. Relax.

I know that when someone tells you to relax and you're nervous, it can have next to no effect. I want you to genuinely try to relax in the situation. If this is something you want to do and you're doing it for your pleasure, you should be excited rather than nervous. If you're worried or scared, you'll be even tighter back there which will make penetration more difficult.

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Make Sure Those Fingernails Are Trimmed

Whether you're anal fingering yourself or someone else is doing the deed, make sure all nails are short and rounded. A finger can be uncomfortable, but a long stiletto manicure can be seriously painful. Not to mention that it could even cut your delicate behind. Ouch.

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Keep Things Clean

Practicing safe, clean sex is essential in any situation. As you're dealing with the butt, it's mandatory to practice good hygiene. Condoms or non-porous plastic wrap can keep things clean. Just make sure that you're not sticking a finger that was up a butt in any other holes. And never forget the importance of a good clean up.

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Try Different Fingers

The index finger is probably the one most people will go for, but maybe it's better if you start smaller, like with the pinky. You might find that things are relaxed enough to try a middle finger or even a thumb. When you're playing around, take things slow and remember to keep it clean.

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Do Not Forget About Foreplay

You've probably noticed what a difference foreplay can make before P in the V sex. It can also help before anal fingering. You can try your usual foreplay routine, or you could have more of an emphasis on butt stuff to help relax the back door.

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Communicate With Your Partner

Communication is one of the secrets to having good sex. Bae is not a mind reader and you should not have to do anything that you feel uncomfortable with. If you're in pain or you don't like the feel of something, speak up. Now. It's perfectly fine to ask bae to stop. It's not hurting his/her feelings. Your relationship should be about honesty, and that includes with sex.

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Go Nice And Slow

This is something that you will want to communicate with bae. You might be able to just slip in a sex toy or a finger in your vagina, but you will want to ease fingers back there. The butthole is a smaller hole. You might find that you can only get a finger in halfway or even just a third. There's no pressure to get a full finger in. Go with what feels comfortable.

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What other tips do you have? Let us know in the comments!

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