8 Things That Actually Happen During A Threesome

Lots of things about sex can seem ~*mysterious*~ if you’ve never done them before. Of course, the feelings are heightened by gossip and TV and movie depictions. Anal sex is one thing that people are always bcurious AF about, but threesomes are another one that people are very intrigued by.

Whether you’re considering having a threesome or you’re not into the idea of getting nasty with two people, you probably still want to know exactly what happens during a threesome. After all, more limbs must mean some complicated positions and a bit more planning, right? Not to mention that television and movies have given us some pretty interesting ideas of what a threeway can actually entail.

To help clear up some things, and to possibly prepare you for your own multi-person action, we’ll get real with you. Here are eight things that actually happen in a threesome.


There Will Be Awkward Moments

If you've watched porn or a sexy threesome in a movie, you might have an idea that a threesome is like a choreographed dance where everyone's limbs just fall naturally into place. That is definitely not the case in real life. IRL, there can be some struggles to even get into position. And once everyone is in the right spot, things might not work out at all. If they do, there will likely be some awkwardness when people start switching things up.

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Someone Will Sit Back And Watch

People have different energy levels and they like to go at different paces. And some people like to sit back and take a moment to enjoy what they're doing. Therefore, don't be surprised if someone breaks away from the action. They might not be offended by anything; they might get a kick out of watching for a change. You might want to consider doing it, too.

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Someone Will Ask What They're Supposed To Be Doing

Should you be grabbing while someone is sucking? Or should you be tending to the other person? Who knows?! You might be confused about what your role is in this threesome. You know what? So are the other people. Therefore, don't be surprised if someone asks what they're supposed to be doing. It's a good move because it can help up everyone's pleasure. Plus, it makes everyone more comfortable since there are no surprise moves.

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Someone Will Get Injured

I don't want to scare you. It's unlikely that someone is going to end up going to the hospital because of the threesome. But the chances of minor injuries are likely. Think a pulled muscle, cramping, knocked heads, or someone accidentally getting kicked. Realistically, it should almost be expected giving that there are so many flailing body parts in one confined space...

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Someone Might Get Jealous

...And it might be you. Everyone might say that they're cool with the idea of a threesome, but they might feel differently when they're in the room with two other naked bodies, trying to get it on. It's hard to know exactly how you're going to feel about a threesome until you're doing it. And even if you've had one before, you might find it different with these two people. And there could also be one little move that could ignite a wave of jealously. Some people keep their feelings quiet, while others will let them be known.

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Someone Will Set Some Rules

This will normally happen right before the action gets going, but sometimes people will realize that they need to set some boundaries after things have started heating up. It's helpful because that way everyone knows where they stand. If you're concerned about doing something, speak up, too. It's better that everyone knows what your limits are.

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Someone Will Start Directing What Everyone Should Be Doing

With so many different body parts to worry about, things can get complicated. No one is a mind reader so no one knows what position they should be getting into. That's why someone will decide it's best to take charge of the situation and start suggesting where everyone will place their body parts. It might not initially seem sexy, but it makes things a lot less awkward.

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Things Will Get Messy

There are two people that you're swapping bodily fluids with. Plus, you have your own to account for. Therefore, things could get a little messy. And that's before we factor in things like lube and extra accessories like food, melted chocolate, body oils, etc. If you find things are getting too messy, you can always suggest to the other people that you can continue the party in the shower.

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Are you thinking about having a threesome? Let us know in the comments!

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