7 Of The Best Positions For Blowjobs, According To Sex Experts

If you have ever given a guy a blowjob—AKA performed oral sex on a male person—you will know that, a lot of the time, this can be a scary experience. Not scary in the “boo, gotcha” haunted house-type of way (though it is October, the spookiest month of all, and I respect any kinks that may be performed during oral sex at this time of year!), but rather in the sense that, no matter how many times you’ve done it before, you’re never quite sure if you’re doing it right.
A lot of the time, this insecurity comes from not exactly knowing how to position oneself. Should you be on your knees? On your side? Dare you attempt a…69? The positions are seemingly endless, and the sheer variety of options can make it an overwhelming experience. Fortunately, I found a Reddit thread recently in which some guys and girls discussed the best positions that ensure mutual pleasure (or, at least, some comfort) for both partners when oral sex is being performed. So, check out some advice on the best possible positions for giving a BJ, according to guys (and some girls) who know what’s up:


Have Your Partner Sit Down

Got some seating in your room? Use it! Attikai said, “I like to sit in a chair, and have recently discovered sitting on top of a picnic table with her sitting on the bench is a great position.” Most people don’t have picnic tables in their room, but, on the off chance that you do, you should definitely use it. (And, for what it’s worth, this can probably be easily improvised by using a bed.)

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Straddle His Chest

Another way to make it more comfortable for yourself? Try to straddle your partner. Rivlet said, “I prefer kneeling on the floor or straddling his chest and facing his penis while I do it. With the first one, I get to feel submissive and I don't feel like my body is blocking the action. My hair doesn't get in my face and I can concentrate entirely on giving the blowjob and adding in my hands and stuff. Additionally, I can make myself at home with his balls without awkwardly mushing my face and nose into his thighs (I like breathing a lot).”

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Have Your Partner Straddle You

Or, if you want to make things a little more interesting, have your guy straddle you. It sounds weird, but, apparently, it works. Armybabethrowaway said, “I love when a guy straddles my upper body and I can suck his dick while he reaches behind himself to play with my clit. It's a little awkward and tiring so I can't do it for too long but still worth it.”

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Use Your Bed

For ~stamina~, try to get into a position that works for both of you. Shesayswhattsaid, “Female here. I have a tall bed, and I recently discovered that I love for my partner to lay back on the bed close enough to the edge that his knees hang over the side. Then, I can get between his legs while still standing. Makes it comfortable for both of us, and I could give head for hours in that position.”

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Think Outside The Box

Sometimes it can help to think outside of the box. ActiveSaber said, “One position that really gets me is when I'm on my knees and lean back on my hands as my girlfriend leans in on my cock. Something about just leaving it all to her and whatever she wants to do to me just makes me hard and ready.”

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Try Something That's Mutually Beneficial

It sounds challenging, but there are actually a few positions that can benefit both partners equally. To do this, ooo-X3R0-ooo said, “I (m) prefer 2 positions 1- on my back with my wife 90° to me, that way she can give me a blowjob while I rub her clit. 2 my wife on her back on the bed, head off the side of the bed, same reasons as above, I can stimulate her at the same time.”

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Kneel

If swallowing is something you like to do, but find challenging, you can try and fix that with your position. Sangetencre said that their favored position is, “either him sitting/standing and my kneeling or him kneeling/lying and me on my back. Also, it's easier to swallow in those positions - gravity's not working against you.”

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