There is definitely something ~empowering~ about being on top during sex. Maybe it’s because you are taking control, or maybe it’s because women are generally told NOT to be on top during sex, but it’s actually pretty cool to take control in a sexual way, right? It shows that you know what you want and are not afraid to get it. You GO, girl. Don’t listen to anyone who says a MAN has to be on top during sex. You are just as capable, if not more so. Plus, being on top makes it easier for your guy to find out where the F your clit is so you can enjoy sex a little bit more, right? Right.
There are a lot of sex positions to try if you want to get it on on top, believe it or not. Sure, you could just, you, know, sit on top of your partner, but you could also do a LOT more when it comes to the classic “cowgirl” position. If you’re not sure how to do that, it’s okay, since it can take some time and patience to be on top. But, here are some perfect sex positions to try out if you want to be on top of things. Ha, get it? Sorry, bad pun. Check out these girl on top positions that you should really try with your bae.
Erotic Roller CoasterThis is a pretty good position for beginners, since it's not TOO crazy, but it's different enough. The angle might take a little while to perfect, but it will be worth it. Have your bae lay down and you sit on top, with your back to them. Be sure to use a lot of lube and go slow! Source
Back On TopThis is also a pretty easy position, so it's good if you're just starting to explore being on top. Have your bae lay down and keep their knees bent. This way, you can lean on them for balance. They can also hold your waist and help you ~thrust~ since that can get tough! Source
Ride Of Your LifeIf you're a little too nervous about being upright on top, try this one. You can start out with the "back on top" position, then lay down on to of your bae. They can hold onto your waist to help you out, and you can hold your balance by gripping the bed. Source
Saddle StraddleThis one is pretty easy, and will feel amazing for both of you. Have your bae sit cross-legged and you kneel over them. Bounce up and down on your knees for an easy way to get it on with your bae. They can even help you out if needed, by guiding your hips. Source
Side StraddleTo kick it up a notch, have your bae lay down as you face their feet. Then, have them raise one leg so you can "straddle" it. This position works because you can have your partner inside you AND grind against their leg, so, you know, you get some contact with your clit. It's a win-win! Source
Erotic EndErotic End You'll have to have good balance for this one, but I think you can do it! Have your bae sit with their legs out and you squat over them with your back towards them. Keep your knees bent so you can easily get it on in an "up and down" motion. This will be a great position to hit your g-spot, which is always a plus! Source
The BridgePSA: this is for experts only. If you have mastered the other girl on top position and want to try something different, do the bridge. Your partner makes a "bridge" with their body, and you sit on top. Be careful though, your bae must have REALLY good upper arm strength. Source
Have you tried any of these positions? Tell us in the comments!