10 Ways To Give A Better Handjob That Will Impress Any Dude

If you like boys, then chances are good that you know that handjobs are typically one of the first bases when it comes to doing sexy stuff. There’s kissing, there’s passionate making out, there’s heavy petting (basically just kissing and touching each other a lot with maybe a touch of dry humping), and handjobs seem like the logical next step. Because it’s one of the first sexual acts many people partake in, handies are often seen as an amateur sexual move that isn’t very exciting or pleasurable. But, uh, this definitely doesn’t need to be true. Don’t underestimate the power of a great handjob! If you’re doing it right, it can deliver an orgasm that can rival any other one.

Feel like you’re not quite at that level yet? Don’t stress, because there are so many ways to make a handjob better, and none of them are very difficult. Whether you want to impress your steady boyfriend, a new crush, or just the dude you’ve been hooking up with, following this advice will help you become a total pro. That’s not a bad thing! Handjobs are excellent for good foreplay, or just for some passionate hookup sessions if you’re not having sex yet. You should know what you’re doing down there and it will end up pleasing both of you. Here are some easy tips to give a great handjob that you’ve probably never thought of:


Have Him Put His Hand Over Yours

If you feel like you have no idea what you're doing, then get your partner to help you in a more subtle way that's easy to understand. Have him put his hand over yours to guide you in how fast he wants you to go, how hard he wants you to squeeze, and what kind of strokes he wants. This can be a sexy way to have him teach you what he's into. And once you've got that down, you're good to go!

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Switch Up Your Technique

If you do the same thing every single time you give a guy a handjob, you need to switch it up. A good handjob isn't just you rubbing his shaft at the same speed until he finishes - that will get boring fast. Try moving your hand around a little. Squeeze harder at certain points. Use two hands instead of one sometimes. Twist your hand around a little. Change up the position you're sitting. Use your other hand. Don't do all of these things one after the other - that's too much! - just try out a few as they feel right.

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Maintain A Steady Pace

Okay, this is where it gets confusing: you should be switching things up a bit and trying new things, but you should also maintain a steady pace. Usually, this is a moderate pace - not too slow and not super fast. Most guys prefer that over someone who goes from slow to super fast to normal to super fast in a matter of five minutes. You can change up your hand position without changing the speed.

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Interlace Your Fingers and Use Both Hands

A lot of dudes love it when a girl uses two hands during a handjob because they get to feel a whole lot more and the sensation is great. You can do the standard two hand motion - one hand on top of the other - and he'll love that (especially if you do a little twisting in different directions). You can also try something slightly different: interlace your fingers, then wrap your hands around his penis and go up and down. It really covers the whole thing.

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Look Him In The Eye

A good handjob isn't just about the motion of your hand - it's also about how you act. If you're sitting there bored and disinterested, waiting for him to finish, it's not going to be very good for him. You have to get into it. One thing that will really turn him on is if you look him in the eye. It shows you're taking control and you're interested in his pleasure.

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Don't Go Too Fast Until The End

Remember what I said about maintaining a steady, moderate pace? Well, do that until you think he's getting ready to finish, and then start going faster. A lot of people assume guys want you to be fast the entire time, but that's not true - that can wear them out and actually even hurt a little. Increasing your pace at the end is enough.

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Touch Yourself Too

Who says this has to be all about him? If you can manage it, touch yourself while giving him a handjob. It will really turn him on to watch you do that, and to know that you're feeling good at the same time he is. It will also get you both turned on and into it, so it will be more fun for everyone.

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Talk Dirty

Dirty talk isn't just for sex! Do it while giving him a handjob to really get him in the mood. You can keep it simple, saying things like, "Tell me what you want" or "Do you like that?" You can of course be a little more aggressive if you're into that! Just make sure you do it with confidence and some passion so it comes across as genuine rather than just something you're memorizing.

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Watch Him Masturbate To Get Ideas

Handjobs are easy, but maybe you feel totally lost, and that's normal, especially if you haven't done it a lot. If your guy is comfortable masturbating in front of you, have him do that for a few moments. You'll be able to see what he looks to pick up pointers. This is a sexier way of asking what he wants.

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Use Your Tongue

If you're comfortable doing it, incorporate your tongue a little bit. Lick the shaft and head a little during the handjob to really ramp up the pleasure. You can use your hands and your mouth at the same time or switch between the two. It's kind of like a mix of a handjob and blowjob - and no guy would complain about that.

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