12 Reasons To Try Phone Sex

There are lots of different types of sex we can have. There’s oral sex, P-in-the-V sex, anal sex, and the (seemingly) 485 other variations on all of them. Another type of sex you can have is phone sex.

I know, I know, phone sex isn’t exactly the same as vaginal penetration, but it’s technically still a type of sex. I mean, it has “sex” in the name, people. If you’ve never done it before, it’s basically where you and bae kick it old school and actually call each other. Then you have a *sexy* conversation, usually while masturbating. And you talk about all the hot stuff you’re doing to yourself, and the hot stuff you want to do to bae…and, well, you know where this going.

Curious? You should be. Phone sex is something that you should consider trying. You’re probably well-versed in sexting and sexy Snapchats with bae, and, if you think about it, phone sex actually carries less of a risk than sexting (no receipts) so why not take it to the next level with phone sex? Here are 12 reasons why you should consider having phone sex.

1. It’s great for long distance relationships.

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One of the best things about phone sex is you and bae can be in two completely different places and still be able to “get it on.” You’re really only limited by your cell phone reception.

 

2. It will make you more excited for the next time you see bae.

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Chances are you’re going to get turned on during phone sex listening to bae breathing heavily over the phone. And the next time you see your SO, you will remember that hot phone call, and be ready to go.

 

3. It’s a good option if you don’t feel comfortable getting too intimate.

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When you and bae are together, do you cut things off at about second base? If you’re not quite ready for any sort of fingering or penetrative sex, phone sex is great because it allows you to form a more intimate connection with bae without going all the way.

 

4. It helps you communicate with bae better.

Do you sometimes have a hard time talking to bae in person? Phone sex can actually help you open up. It might feel awkward at first, but when you get going, you will start to feel more comfortable. And chances are that will translate to real life.

 

5. Phone sex makes you more comfortable with your body.

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Instead of simply talking on the phone, most people masturbate, too. While you’re doing it, you’re exploring your body more (sometimes with bae’s encouragement) and that will give you a better idea of what you like and don’t like.

 

6. It will make it easier to talk during sex.

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If you’re having anal/oral/vaginal sex with bae, is it usually radio silent? Phone sex can make it easier to get the conversation going in real life. If you and bae are comfortable talking to each other on the phone, you’ll be more comfortable doing it in real life.

 

7. Phone sex is hotter than any sexy text.

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You might think that those texts are pretty sexy, but nothing beats hearing bae’s turned on voice on the other end of the line. No text can get that across.

 

8. It makes it easier to express your fantasies.

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Talking about your fantasies over the phone is a lot less nerve-wracking than revealing them IRL. And once you’ve done it, it will be easier to discuss them.

 

9. It’s waaaay better than sending sexy photos.

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Some people like to send sexy photos, but they come with drawbacks. First, it can take hundreds to get the right one. Second, those photos could potentially be shared with other people. When you’re chatting over the phone, it’s way more intimate than waiting 20 minutes to get bae’s sexy photo response to yours. Plus, it’s less likely that call will be recorded and shared.

 

10. It allows you to find out more about bae.

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You’re not going to be the only one opening up on that phone line, bae will be, too. Chances are you’ll discover some new things about bae that will come in handy the next time you’re together. *winks*

 

11. The mystery element can be a major turn on.

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If you do proper phone sex without video, the fact that you and bae don’t see each other can actually heighten your senses and make it even hotter because you’ve only got bae’s voice and breathing to go by.

 

12. It can give you a laugh.

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Whether you become super into it or not, phone sex usually results in a good laugh or two. And when you and bae laugh together, you bond. Awwwww.

 

Have you ever tried phone sex? Let us know in the comments!

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