10 Things Guys Think About While They Watch Porn

At this point, it’s basically accepted that most dudes watch and enjoy porn on a pretty regular basis – but that doesn’t mean that everyone is 100 percent comfortable with it. Sure, there is a vast majority of women who don’t care what their significant others do with porn, but a lot of girls hate that their BFs watch porn, or they just don’t really like it but don’t want to say anything about it. However you feel about it, though, you’ve probably wondered, at least once, what goes through your boyfriend’s head while he’s watching porn. Is he thinking about you? Is he thinking about the person he’s watching? Is he wishing you looked like that and did those things? Should you be more concerned than you are about this habit?

It’s normal to be concerned with what your boyfriend truly thinks about porn, and it’s also pretty normal to feel like you can’t ask him these things. So, if that’s the case, this Ask Reddit thread will be extremely helpful. Someone asked Ask Men users what they think about while watching porn, and the answers were candid and very honest. Of course, not every guy is the same, so these thoughts might not all go through your own boyfriend’s mind, but they do give a general idea on what’s going on while they’re watching strangers bang. Interested? Don’t lie, you know you’re curious! Here’s what guys think when watching porn – you might even find it reassuring.


Themselves As The Guy In The Video

A lot of guys agreed that, while watching a certain porn, they imagine that they are the guy in the video. User justanotherlurker33 says, "I vicariously envision myself being the dude in the porn nailing the girl. I have a vivid imagination so this works for me." So if you were wondering if they think about actually having sex with the girl (or guys) in the porn, the answer is... kind of, yes.

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Doing Those Things With Their Girlfriend

But hey, it's not all bad - a lot of guys watch porn and then think about their girlfriends or their crush, kind of imagining them as the girl in the video. User porsche_914Male says, "Back when I was with my girlfriend I would imagine doing those things with her." Some guys take the stuff they say in porn and bring it to the bedroom with their partner.

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A Running Commentary

For some dudes, it's not very deep - they're just thinking normal thoughts that change as stuff happens, and some of those thoughts aren't even about the porn. Example? User Mustang80 says, "Oh my goodness so many things. -Wow that ass is so nice. -Why isn't the guy slapping it??? -Seriously, he's gonna keep his hands behind his head while she rides him like a maniac? -Of course I'd get like 10 texts in a row right now. (Puts phone on silent) -Wow this chick can ride. -Maybe I should get on Tinder after this. -Seriously he hasn't touched her ass once. How am I supposed to pretend that's me? -Okay don't randomly think of a friend or relative. -How the f*** did he win the election though? We're just going to do this shit for four years? -I should save the link to this video in a notepad so I don't have to search for it next time. -Alright I'm about to cum, let me fast forward to a good scene. -F***, I'm about to cum! Find a good angle! -F*** it was an up close of his face. Whatever. -Shame/regret follow"

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How The Girl Feels

A lot of guys watch porn and spend a lot of the time imagining what it's like for the girl in the video - not, like, their background, but more of if it feels good for her. User Clean-Cut-Kid85 says, "This depends on the video, but usually when it's a good one I'm doing this: I imagine how it must feel for the girl. Not for the guy; and not imagining myself f****** her or how it would feel for me if I f***** her. No, how it feels for her. Is she enjoying it; will she come from it; does she like it rough; does she like it at all; can she take it, etc. Does a lot for me!"

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How Lonely They Are

Some guys get really into porn when they first start watching it, but as soon as it's over, they feel less than thrilled. One user explained that he loves it when the video starts, but by the end of it, he feels like he's lacking something. lucicamMale says, "Phase three - the depression: I don't know if I'm the only one but after masturbating I get depressed af because I'm here alone in my room masturbating instead of actually being with a girl and I start feeling really lonely and think about my life and where am I failing in getting a girl..."

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Picturing Their Girlfriend As Girl During Actual Sex

One of the main reasons guys watch porn is to fulfill the sexual fantasies going through their heads. So, it makes sense that they sometimes take what they see in porn and think about it while having sex. User nightmare247 says, "I watch because I fantasize about sex. I want a woman who wants to be wild, dress sexy, and be enthusiastic about sex. I don't imagine myself in either stars position, but sometimes I imagine that my partner is black or asian or a redhead or an athletic girl. I use it as a tool to fulfill my fantasy that can't be fulfilled, get my rocks off when my SO is not in the mood/willing, or interested in trying something. I also use it as a learning tool. I want to be a better lover. I want to take pleasure in pleasing her and porn helps."

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Nothing

A lot of dudes agreed that they have no idea what they think about, because none of it really sticks. User reptileseat says, "It's really not that deep. Visually porn is arousing, it's an aid to masturbating, the thoughts that go through guys head when they watch it doesn't evolve or become more complex than the occasional and generic "Look at those tits" "that ass is fat", etc. You bust a nut and move on."

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'Why Am I Turned On By This?'

Sometimes dudes watch weird porn, and yes - they are aware that it's weird. User atropicalpenguinMale says, "Jesus, why am I getting turned on by this? Back when I started normal penis-in-vagina porn was enough to turn me on."

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'No, Not This One, Not This One...'

A lot of guys won't just watch anything - they spend a lot of time searching for the right video. So, the thoughts going through their head might be something like this bleedy_dick says, "Nope. Nope. Nope. Fake. Fake. Fake. Nope. That's good, put that in the 'maybe' tab. Nope. Nope. Nope. Yes. Nope. I have a girlfriend, maybe I should call her? Nope. Oh hey I wonder if [insert name here] has any new videos? Nope. Nope. Maybe. Maybe. Yes. Nope. Nope. Okay, here's a good one. Yeah. This'll do. Oh boy, this is gonna be... shit, where's the rag? Am I lying on it? Oh it's right here. F***, now I've lost focus. Nope. Nope. Nope..."

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'I'm Pathetic'

Some guys feel guilty about their porn habit. User DarthGregor says, "This is kind of sad and pathetic." That's kind of a bummer to hear, to be honest! No one wants to feel that way after masturbating.

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Do you ever watch porn? What do you think about when you watch it? Did any of these surprise you? Tell us in the comments.

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