7 Guys On What They Really Think About Fingering Girls

If you have ever hooked up with anyone before, chances are good that, at some point or another, you felt more than a little self conscious about it. This is normal! It would be nice to always feel like a confident, fully realized sexual being while you are hooking up but, for most people, self-consciousness is a pretty standard part of the hookup experience, whether it involves kissing, penetrative sex, oral, or anything in between. And, for many people, there might be nothing they feel more self-conscious about than the act of getting fingered.

Like, it may (or may not, depending on your partner’s skill level) feel good, but, if your mind starts to wander, you might find yourself wondering what it feels like to them.

Thanks to some Reddit threads that focus on guys who finger girls (and, it bears noting, I felt pervy as all heck about searching for all of these), we can now be privy to what’s really going on in a guy’s head as they finger you. Or, to be exact, what’s going on in the heads of a few guys who choose to participate in sexual discourse on Reddit threads think about fingering girls. (So, what I am trying to say here is that you should take this with many, many grains of salt.) Anyway, check out what some guys think about fingering girls right here:

 

 


They Like It Because You Like It

Some guys like fingering girls because, apparently, it makes them feel good. (That is why most guys do most things!) Mystikalghost said, "A lot of guys like seeing pleasure on their partners faces. I know I do. I finger to get her off, to make her feel good, cause it makes me feel amazing." You hear that? Amazing.

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It Can Make Them Hard...Then Not Hard

If you notice that your partner has an erection before starting to finger you, then loses it, don't sweat it. Yeah_plant_my_beans said, "I think that most of the reason that I lose my boner when giving oral pleasure is because I'm concentrating hard on [it], not because of a lack of excitement." Of course, you really shouldn't worry about your partner's erection while they're fingering you--you can be concerned about their general comfort, but getting fingered is the one thing that's really about you--but chances are good that their boner will be back really fast as soon as they lose it.

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It Can Also Make Them Orgasm

If the fingering turns into oral (or even if it doesn't), it's possible that this can actually make your partner excited. Very, very excited. Medium_King_David said, "I came once while going down on a girl. It was kind of amazing. I can't really account for it, except to say that I was relatively young, inexperienced, and very very excited." So, um, that's something to look out for, I guess. Usually, it's more of a mix. Tomkidron said, "Of course, I do get hard, but it's not always rock solid. Sometimes it can be semi erect, but it usually gets harder as she's reaching her climax. I once actually came myself, just by looking at her as she orgasmed." So, you can take fingering on a case-by-case basis. As you should with most things.

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It Feels Nice For Them

Guys like to finger you because, um, it feels good. Or, at least, that's what SigmaStrain had to say. According to him, "It's 'cause you feel so snuggly soft inside! Actually, I just like the way a girl feels inside." Snuggly soft...is an odd way to put it, maybe, but who am I to judge?

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It's (Sort Of) Like Playing Video Games

Do you prefer to hear your fingering anecdotes through the veil of metaphors? If so, listen to Reddit user CreepyJ. He said he likes fingering for, "the exact same reason I enjoy playing Super Mario Brothers even though I'm not actually saving a princess." That makes sense. I think? Basically, it's possible for things to be satisfying for someone even if they aren't feeling sexual gratification.

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Or Like Feeling Someone Up

And some guys think it's similar to feeling someone up. Crackox said, "Why do we like to hug boobs? they feel nice, soft squishy heavenly. We don't get much pleasure from it, but it still feels nice. I like to stick my finger in my girl because I like to make her moan and gasp. To see her toes curl and imagine her pleasure. I like how it feels inside." That might have been a little more information than you needed! But, you know, there you go.

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It's Really Nothing To Sweat On Your Part

According to a Reddit user who goes by the particularly apt name "somedudewrote," he gets "hard doing anything." So. Feeling self-conscious about your vagina while you're getting fingered? Don't.

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What do you think about these revelations? Were there any that really surprised you? Let us know in the comments!

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