In the grand scheme of things, being attractive doesn’t really matter. You are a smart and strong young lady who doesn’t need anyone else to tell you that. But sometimes you want to seem attractive to others. It’s normal to want to get other people’s attention and get your ~flirt~ on, right? Right. So, if you start flirting with someone and you realize they aren’t into you, it can be upsetting. That’s why you need to learn about your most attractive qualities. Yes, we all have them, and it’s important to know what they are so that we can play them up.
Listen, I know you really don’t want to think about your least attractive quality, but you are curious, right? It’s only normal to be wondering what it is that makes people not into you. It’s not even all about physical traits – there are plenty of personality traits that can be totally unattractive too. Even if you don’t think that you have unattractive qualities, you do. Sorry. But we all do! It’s what makes us human. We are not going to be attractive all day, every day. I’m not saying you need to change yourself in order to be attractive, but it IS important to be aware of how others perceive you and your personality. So, take a look at what makes you unattractive, so you can figure out exactly what’s going on if someone isn’t that into you.
Taurus (April 20-May 20)Taurus girls are awesome, of course, but they can be a little selfish, which could come off as self-absorbed and un-interested. Acting this way might make others not want to be around you. Try to be involved in other conversations, and talk about things besides yourself! Image Source: iStock
Gemini (May 21- June 20)Gemini girls are so social, it can get a little overbearing. Sometimes, they can intimidate others and not realize it, which can be a turn off. I'm not saying that a strong, fierce female like you is a turnoff, but it's important to be aware of your actions. If you're making someone uncomfortable, you should take a step back and reevaluate your flirting methods. Image Source: iStock
Cancer (June 21-July 22)Cancer girls are so much fun to be around...when they decide to hang out. They spend a lot of time alone, which is fine, but it might make them seem uninterested in other people. If you're a Cancer and you think that guys don't like you, it's not your fault! You just need to get out there a little more and be open to new things. Image Source: iStock
Leo (July 23- August 22)Leo girls have VERY high standards. That's not terrible, but it's important to keep your mind a little more open and not set incredibly high standards for other people. If you're always talking about how you need a ~prince charming~ to come along, you might be making others feel not good enough for you. You need to give people a chance! Not everyone, of course, but at least some. Image Source: iStock
Virgo (August 22- September 21)Virgo girls are super kind and attentive to others. But, they tend to be very closed off, which can make them seem uninterested. If you're a Virgo and someone is flirting with you, try to engage in the convo (if you want to, of course) instead of just brushing them off. Your constant need to push people away isn't a very attractive quality. Sorry! But you can work on it. Image Source: iStock
Libra (September 22-October 22)Libra girls are SUPER opinionated, which means that they love to pick fights and end up causing all the drama in their friend group, which could be a major turn off to any potential baes. Sometimes, it's okay to keep the drama to yourself! Image Source: iStock
Scorpio (October 23-November 21)Scorpios are a little TOO picky, which can get frustrating. They tend to be unsure of what they want, which means they string people along, or attach themselves to people, which can be a little too intense for others. It's obviously okay to be open about your feelings, but it's important to be mindful of other people's feelings, as well! Image Source: iStock
Sagittarius (November 22- December 21)Sagittarius girls are amazing, but they are also really hard to keep up with, which can be offputting. I know you don't mean to, but sometimes you leave others behind, and it can be a little unfair. Try to slow down every once in awhile so people can get to know you! Image Source: iStock
Capricorn (December 22- January 19)Capricorns are very private people. They don't open up, and therefore, they don't ask others about their lives, which just makes hanging with them a little awkward. If you're a Capricorn, be sure to try and engage in conversation AND ask about how others are doing. It will really make a difference and help get you to open up! Image Source: iStock
Aquarius (January 20- February 18)No offense, but Aquarius girls are very confusing. This comes from the fact that they are represented by water, but are actually an air sign. So, if you're an Aquarius, you might come off as a little "out there." That's fine, but you want to be sure that people get to know you, since being confusing isn't a super attractive quality to most! Image Source: iStock
Pisces (February 19- March 20)A Pisces girl is an old soul, which can go to her head sometimes. She might think that she is more mature than others, but that's not always true. It's important that you don't hold yourself to a SUPER high standard, since that can get complicated. Just do you, and don't worry about trying to seem smart. You are naturally smart, and you shouldn't pretend to act any different! Image Source: iStock
Aries (March 21- April 19)Aries girls are...a lot. It's not a bad thing! But they need things to be there way, which means they can be a little TOO bossy sometimes, and some people might consider that a turn off. Try to be a little more open-minded when it comes to other people's ideas. Image Source: iStock
What is your sign? Tell us in the comments!