7 Things You Have To Do Before You Try Anal Fingering

Well, well, well, you’re probably here because you’ve decided to try anal fingering, or you’re at least seriously considering the thought. Good for you. Butt stuff can intimidate a lot of people for various reasons (hello, pain), but it doesn’t actually have to be that scary. In fact, it’s a great way to get to know your own body as well as bae’s. And one of the great ways to explore the back door is with anal fingering.

As with anything, there are some things that you will want to do before you and bae are laying on the bed with your fingers at the ready. Butt stuff doesn’t have to be a big deal, of course, but there are still some things you can do to prepare yourself. So, before anything goes near a butthole, make sure you have a look at the things you need to do before you start anal fingering.


Buy All The Lube

You absolutely do not want to attempt anal sex without lube, and you don't want to attempt anal fingering without it, either. Get prepared by stocking up on a big ol' bottle of it. And when it comes to putting that finger up there, do not be stingy with the lubricant.

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Go To The Bathroom

Doing backdoor stuff will not automatically make you have to go number two, but no one wants to be attempting butt stuff when there's something in the pipe, if you know what I mean. Therefore, go to the bathroom beforehand. This will also give you a chance to ensure that everything is clean down below.

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Wash Up

When it comes to butt stuff, it's all about hygiene, hygiene, and hygiene.  All fingers and bottoms should be washed with soap and water before anything gets inserted. And of course everything should be thoroughly rewashed post-anal fingering.

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Consider Adding Toys

When people are trying anal fingering for the first time, they will probably want to keep it simple. However, some might want to consider adding toys into the mix to help with the experience. Dildos and butt plugs aren't your only options. There are some sexy ribbed finger gloves that can increase the pleasure. You can also consider adding some vaginal toys into the mix to help you relax.

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Talk To Bae

If you're going to attempt anal fingering with your SO, it can be worthwhile to discuss how things are going to go down beforehand. You might not think it's the most *romantic* thing, but it will actually lead to a more pleasurable experience. Do you want to take it really slow? Does the idea of bae using more than one finger freak you out? These are things that should be addressed long before you're there with your butt exposed.

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Grab Some Finger Condoms Or Gloves

Safety, protection, and good hygiene are all super important things during butt stuff. You want to keep the entire anal fingering experience as clean as possible to prevent the transfer of bacteria. Therefore, ensure that you have your stash of gloves or condoms ready to go.

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Cut Your Nails

To make anal fingering as enjoyable as possible, you will want to ensure that you and bae both have short, rounded nails. Your butthole can be a sensitive spot and the last thing you want to do is damage it with a long fingernail. Just imagine putting a stiletto nail up there for a sec. Ouch.

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Have you ever tried anal fingering before? Did you like it? Let us know in the comments!

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