8 Ways To Incorporate Butt Stuff When You’re Masturbating

Have you been tinkering with the idea of trying some butt stuff, but are on the fence about actually doing it? If the thought of having anilingus, anal fingering, anal sex, or all of the above is making you scratch your head, doing some butt stuff while you’re masturbating might be more up your street.

What’s that? You’ve never considered adding some butt stuff into your masturbation session? You’re not alone. The vagina has more than enough nerve endings and ~*special spots*~ to keep us satisfied which is why some people don’t consider exploring other areas.

If you are up for some experimenting then it’s time to pay attention to back there. Even if you’re not planning on doing any butt stuff with your SO, experimenting with some solo butt stuff can be great because it allows you to get to know your body better, which is always a good thing. To get you started, here are eight easy ways to incorporate some back door stuff in your usual rub down.


Stick A Finger Up There

You've probably heard the one about sticking a finger up a guy's you-know-where just before he orgasms for a more *intense* result. Well, why not try it out yourself when you're masturbating? Just *gently* insert a digit and carry on masturbating with your other hand on your vag. Just watch out for long nails. And remember to be gentle and keep things clean.

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Focus On The Area Around Your Butthole

Is it butthole penetration that makes you uneasy? Then avoid the area entirely. Instead of being so focused on putting things up there, try simply rubbing and massaging the area around the hole. You might just be surprised with how good that alone can feel.

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Try A Butt Plug

Think that working on your butt and vag at the same time will be too much? Try some butt stuff that doesn't require your full attention so you can still focus on your vag. The solution? Try adding a butt plug back there. FYI: You're going to want to lube it up before you put it in. Once it's in, you can *almost* forget about it and go back to focusing on the front.

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Do Not Rush It

If you're having a quickie masturbation session, don't bother with the butt stuff. You will want to save it for a time when you don't have somewhere to be and 50,000 things to do. You want to do it when you're chilled out so you won't be stressed to just get it in there and be done with it.

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Show Your Cheeks Some Love

There are more parts to your bum than your butthole, you know. Doing some stuff with your cheeks while you're rubbing your clit can help increase the pleasure. And don't be afraid to spank yourself a few times, especially if you're into it when bae does it.

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Experiment With Sex Toys

Not sure about shoving a finger up your poop hole? Try toys instead. FYI: Bum toys aren't limited to butt plugs. You can try anal beads, tiny dildos, or ribbed gloves. For newbies, you'll want to start off with small, narrow things until you get comfortable. Oh, and you'll need lube. Lots and lots of lube.

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Rub Up Against Stuff With Your Butt

Do you like to hump things while masturbating? Then you'll probably like this one. While you're rubbing your front lady parts, try simultaneously rubbing up against stuff with your butt. A textured blanket or your pillow are good options. Ditto with your mattress. Just remember to keep it safe, people.

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Try Anal Fingering Yourself

Okay, so it might not sound super hot when I say it like that, but it can be. If you're worried about it being too painful when bae does it, it can be a good exercise to try it out on yourself first. That way, you're in full control of the situation. You can take things as slow as you like and you can stop if it gets too intense. Just remember to use a condom or glove and a lot of lube. One you've gotten over the tricky part of insert the finger, you can try feeling around up in there, or moving your digit back and forth.

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Have you ever tried butt stuff while masturbating? What about during sex? Let us know in the comments!

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