What Do You Do If Your Partner Asks You To Masturbate For Them

If you have ever dating someone, there is a chance that, at some point, they have asked you to masturbate in front of them or with them. At first you might be a little hesitant. I mean…masturbating is a super personal thing. You might not even be super comfortable doing it in general, let alone with another person in the room. So, even though it might be a turn on for them, you might feel a little weird about it. It’s okay! I’m going to talk you through it.

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There is no easy answer to “should you masturbate with your partner” because it all depends on what you are comfortable with. You are also always allowed to say no, even if you have done it before. But, let’s say you do want to do it, which is cool, how do you do it? When you are masturbating in front of someone, it’s probably a turn on for them. Maybe it’s a turn on for you! But it can be nerve-wracking, especially if you’ve never done it. Whether it is a form of foreplay, or just some sort of bonding experience, it’s supposed to be fun, so the first rule of masturbating with someone else it to make sure you actually want to do it.

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Don’t do it just to make your partner happy, or because you feel like you have to. That will just make you feel bad later on, or even regret it, which is a terrible feeling. Once you decide it’s something you want to do, then have them help you ~get in the mood~. If it would make you more comfortable, ask them to masturbate with you! You can even add toys or lube to make it fun for both of you. It can be a cool bonding experience if you are both into it. Make sure you are somewhere you feel comfortable, like your room or your bae’s room, and just masturbate the way you normally would.

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Another thing to keep in mind is that, sometimes, your partner might want to film you when you’re masturbating. I don’t know why, but it happens, and if they ask you, you should tell them no. They might want to keep a video of you for their own personal reference, but, honestly, you don’t know what will happen to those videos or pictures, and you don’t want those out in the world. If you say no to being filmed and they get upset, that’s a sign that your partner is sort of trash.

Overall, if you choose to masturbate with your bae, it should be something fun. If you don’t think you will have fun, don’t do it. That’s really it! If you are ever uncomfortable, talk it out with your bae and let them know how you’re feeling. They should be able to understand and support you.
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